Dr. Rhonda Barofsky

Why does it upset you? Like you're just normalizing it. You're just normalizing the blushing.

Why does it upset you? Like you're just normalizing it. You're just normalizing the blushing.

Sure.

Sure.

Yeah, I am blushing.

Yeah, I am blushing.

Wow. You're right. It is kind of childish. I love that about myself. And I've been blushing since I was a little kid, probably five years old. It's a quality that's, that's a part of me. And most people feel like close to me and get really endeared with me. And I love that. You know, it makes, I feel really humble and, and I don't feel like I'm, I have to be better than everyone else.

Wow. You're right. It is kind of childish. I love that about myself. And I've been blushing since I was a little kid, probably five years old. It's a quality that's, that's a part of me. And most people feel like close to me and get really endeared with me. And I love that. You know, it makes, I feel really humble and, and I don't feel like I'm, I have to be better than everyone else.

And blushing kind of keeps that alive for me. But you said it was disgusting and you're calling everybody to look over at me.

And blushing kind of keeps that alive for me. But you said it was disgusting and you're calling everybody to look over at me.

I would be so happy and flattered to be in the newspaper talking about blushing and having my picture in the paper, even when I am blushing. That would be super fun. Well, you said it was ridiculous. I'm curious, what's ridiculous about it? You said it was disgusting. Like, what disgusts you about it?

I would be so happy and flattered to be in the newspaper talking about blushing and having my picture in the paper, even when I am blushing. That would be super fun. Well, you said it was ridiculous. I'm curious, what's ridiculous about it? You said it was disgusting. Like, what disgusts you about it?

Oh, gosh. I admire you for being conscious, being courageous and confident. And, you know, blushing is a part of me and I love the strengths that you're sharing with me. You know, blushing is one of my qualities, just like

Oh, gosh. I admire you for being conscious, being courageous and confident. And, you know, blushing is a part of me and I love the strengths that you're sharing with me. You know, blushing is one of my qualities, just like

talking to you is and and responding to you and thinking about it and and you know can i give you a corrective feedback right now yeah i'm kind of losing myself you're getting defensive aren't you

talking to you is and and responding to you and thinking about it and and you know can i give you a corrective feedback right now yeah i'm kind of losing myself you're getting defensive aren't you

But what if I said blushing is one of my many strengths? I mean, why do I have to see it as a flaw?

But what if I said blushing is one of my many strengths? I mean, why do I have to see it as a flaw?

No, not right now. That's why it's not going to work. Okay. That makes sense. Okay. So then let me just repeat that and say, yeah, blushing is one of my many flaws, but if you get to know me, you'll find out that I have a lot more than that.

No, not right now. That's why it's not going to work. Okay. That makes sense. Okay. So then let me just repeat that and say, yeah, blushing is one of my many flaws, but if you get to know me, you'll find out that I have a lot more than that.