Dr. Robin Stern

you're not thinking to yourself, do I want to get together with somebody who waited a week to respond to my text? Do I like that? And maybe the first time you say, okay, who knows, maybe she had COVID, maybe she was on a business trip, whatever. But when somebody regularly treats you like that, we are more like, what's going on with her? I wonder why she doesn't respond right away.

I wonder if she had a bad experience with a relationship. or controlling mother or, you know, whatever it is that we can entertain ourselves. And I mean that we're literally with the drama that it becomes the drama becomes fascinating. And we completely forget that our heart is hurting. And we forget to just tune into our own feelings.

I wonder if she had a bad experience with a relationship. or controlling mother or, you know, whatever it is that we can entertain ourselves. And I mean that we're literally with the drama that it becomes the drama becomes fascinating. And we completely forget that our heart is hurting. And we forget to just tune into our own feelings.

I wonder if she had a bad experience with a relationship. or controlling mother or, you know, whatever it is that we can entertain ourselves. And I mean that we're literally with the drama that it becomes the drama becomes fascinating. And we completely forget that our heart is hurting. And we forget to just tune into our own feelings.

Doesn't matter. As if you have to be justified. Why can't we just be? I mean, we are who we are, right?

Doesn't matter. As if you have to be justified. Why can't we just be? I mean, we are who we are, right?

Doesn't matter. As if you have to be justified. Why can't we just be? I mean, we are who we are, right?

Exactly. You're still a goddamn cheetah.

Exactly. You're still a goddamn cheetah.

Exactly. You're still a goddamn cheetah.

Every day. Exactly. Exactly.

Every day. Exactly. Exactly.

Every day. Exactly. Exactly.

I agree. The intimidator is easy to spot because he's intimidating. He's cursing. Sadly, he may get violent. It's something that you need to watch for. And just nasty and critical and uses tone of voice and body posture, physical distance to make sure that you stay connected, you stay in line, that he's right. But the glamour gaslighter, he's just all about the show. He was just so cute.

I agree. The intimidator is easy to spot because he's intimidating. He's cursing. Sadly, he may get violent. It's something that you need to watch for. And just nasty and critical and uses tone of voice and body posture, physical distance to make sure that you stay connected, you stay in line, that he's right. But the glamour gaslighter, he's just all about the show. He was just so cute.

I agree. The intimidator is easy to spot because he's intimidating. He's cursing. Sadly, he may get violent. It's something that you need to watch for. And just nasty and critical and uses tone of voice and body posture, physical distance to make sure that you stay connected, you stay in line, that he's right. But the glamour gaslighter, he's just all about the show. He was just so cute.

He brought his girlfriend flowers all the time and they'd have these blow ups. And then she wouldn't hear from him for a while. And she would be just on the verge of saying, this is not OK or I don't like this. And then he would arrive at her house and she would start to complain. And he would say, you know, I love you. Come on, it's not really a big deal. So it was four days.

He brought his girlfriend flowers all the time and they'd have these blow ups. And then she wouldn't hear from him for a while. And she would be just on the verge of saying, this is not OK or I don't like this. And then he would arrive at her house and she would start to complain. And he would say, you know, I love you. Come on, it's not really a big deal. So it was four days.

He brought his girlfriend flowers all the time and they'd have these blow ups. And then she wouldn't hear from him for a while. And she would be just on the verge of saying, this is not OK or I don't like this. And then he would arrive at her house and she would start to complain. And he would say, you know, I love you. Come on, it's not really a big deal. So it was four days.

But look what I bought you. Some people might say, you know what, honey, I don't want a gift from you right now. Rather, you just treat me well. So save the gift for a time we're in a good place. But when you feel like your glamour gaslighter is larger than life, he's your soulmate. You've never met anyone as amazing. And you have that kind of idealizing going on. And he's a man of grand gestures.