Dr. Robin Stern

But look what I bought you. Some people might say, you know what, honey, I don't want a gift from you right now. Rather, you just treat me well. So save the gift for a time we're in a good place. But when you feel like your glamour gaslighter is larger than life, he's your soulmate. You've never met anyone as amazing. And you have that kind of idealizing going on. And he's a man of grand gestures.

But look what I bought you. Some people might say, you know what, honey, I don't want a gift from you right now. Rather, you just treat me well. So save the gift for a time we're in a good place. But when you feel like your glamour gaslighter is larger than life, he's your soulmate. You've never met anyone as amazing. And you have that kind of idealizing going on. And he's a man of grand gestures.

making you feel like you are the only person in the world for him at that moment. It's easy to fall into. And then the good guy gaslighter was so nice, very affable, very pleasant, can tell you you're crazy with a smile on his face. So when you walk away and you may have like a weekend long argument,

making you feel like you are the only person in the world for him at that moment. It's easy to fall into. And then the good guy gaslighter was so nice, very affable, very pleasant, can tell you you're crazy with a smile on his face. So when you walk away and you may have like a weekend long argument,

making you feel like you are the only person in the world for him at that moment. It's easy to fall into. And then the good guy gaslighter was so nice, very affable, very pleasant, can tell you you're crazy with a smile on his face. So when you walk away and you may have like a weekend long argument,

thinking of a couple I worked with who argued for the whole weekend until Sunday night from Friday night about whether or not they would visit her parents. And he really didn't want to go. And he talked to her about how attached she felt to her parents and that was so wrong. And she had real issues with it. And in the end, he said, all right, we're going to go.

thinking of a couple I worked with who argued for the whole weekend until Sunday night from Friday night about whether or not they would visit her parents. And he really didn't want to go. And he talked to her about how attached she felt to her parents and that was so wrong. And she had real issues with it. And in the end, he said, all right, we're going to go.

thinking of a couple I worked with who argued for the whole weekend until Sunday night from Friday night about whether or not they would visit her parents. And he really didn't want to go. And he talked to her about how attached she felt to her parents and that was so wrong. And she had real issues with it. And in the end, he said, all right, we're going to go.

And you've convinced me we're going to go. She was exhausted. She was exhausted in the relationship. And yet she felt like she had nothing to complain about because everyone liked him. He's a nice guy. Mild-mannered, agreeable, smile on his face.

And you've convinced me we're going to go. She was exhausted. She was exhausted in the relationship. And yet she felt like she had nothing to complain about because everyone liked him. He's a nice guy. Mild-mannered, agreeable, smile on his face.

And you've convinced me we're going to go. She was exhausted. She was exhausted in the relationship. And yet she felt like she had nothing to complain about because everyone liked him. He's a nice guy. Mild-mannered, agreeable, smile on his face.

That's right. Because you can't point to the monster who just said to you, you're a bitch. Yeah. The nice guy just went to visit your parents. And so you end up in the therapist's office and you say, I don't know.

That's right. Because you can't point to the monster who just said to you, you're a bitch. Yeah. The nice guy just went to visit your parents. And so you end up in the therapist's office and you say, I don't know.

That's right. Because you can't point to the monster who just said to you, you're a bitch. Yeah. The nice guy just went to visit your parents. And so you end up in the therapist's office and you say, I don't know.

Absolutely. Yes.

Absolutely. Yes.

Absolutely. Yes.

Yeah. There's no connection because it's all a show for him. It's about him wanting to be the glamour gaslighter bringing you flowers.

Yeah. There's no connection because it's all a show for him. It's about him wanting to be the glamour gaslighter bringing you flowers.

Yeah. There's no connection because it's all a show for him. It's about him wanting to be the glamour gaslighter bringing you flowers.