Dr. Ryan Martin
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Well, I think all of us, like, you know, we've been talking about anger as an emotion, and it is, but it's also sometimes a personality trait. Oh, really? Yeah, I mean, it's a characteristic. Like, there are some people who are just angrier than others, or some people express their anger more outwardly or experience more consequences.
Well, I think all of us, like, you know, we've been talking about anger as an emotion, and it is, but it's also sometimes a personality trait. Oh, really? Yeah, I mean, it's a characteristic. Like, there are some people who are just angrier than others, or some people express their anger more outwardly or experience more consequences.
And because of that, you know, I think with any personality trait, sometimes as human beings, we cling to things that we sort of like as defining characteristics, right? And so, like, and we cling to those as things that, like, make us proud of ourselves or that we enjoy or whatever. So maybe a person says, well, hey, like, I'm kind, right? That's that's that's just who I am.
And because of that, you know, I think with any personality trait, sometimes as human beings, we cling to things that we sort of like as defining characteristics, right? And so, like, and we cling to those as things that, like, make us proud of ourselves or that we enjoy or whatever. So maybe a person says, well, hey, like, I'm kind, right? That's that's that's just who I am.
And because of that, you know, I think with any personality trait, sometimes as human beings, we cling to things that we sort of like as defining characteristics, right? And so, like, and we cling to those as things that, like, make us proud of ourselves or that we enjoy or whatever. So maybe a person says, well, hey, like, I'm kind, right? That's that's that's just who I am.
And I lean into that. Maybe someone leans into the idea that they're an angry person and that it's you know, that's kind of how they identify. I think that's true, especially because so in this I'm not advocating for this, but anger is how a lot of successful people get things done right now. Do you ever watch the show Entourage?
And I lean into that. Maybe someone leans into the idea that they're an angry person and that it's you know, that's kind of how they identify. I think that's true, especially because so in this I'm not advocating for this, but anger is how a lot of successful people get things done right now. Do you ever watch the show Entourage?
And I lean into that. Maybe someone leans into the idea that they're an angry person and that it's you know, that's kind of how they identify. I think that's true, especially because so in this I'm not advocating for this, but anger is how a lot of successful people get things done right now. Do you ever watch the show Entourage?
Okay. So Ari Gold, that, that character, you know, that's rooted in a real life person. Um, and he, who I think had, um, like used those kinds of, of, um. Tactics. Yeah. Tactics and used angry, aggressive approach to, to manipulate people and to, um, to get people to do what he, what he wanted. Right. And so like, that's someone who I think, um,
Okay. So Ari Gold, that, that character, you know, that's rooted in a real life person. Um, and he, who I think had, um, like used those kinds of, of, um. Tactics. Yeah. Tactics and used angry, aggressive approach to, to manipulate people and to, um, to get people to do what he, what he wanted. Right. And so like, that's someone who I think, um,
Okay. So Ari Gold, that, that character, you know, that's rooted in a real life person. Um, and he, who I think had, um, like used those kinds of, of, um. Tactics. Yeah. Tactics and used angry, aggressive approach to, to manipulate people and to, um, to get people to do what he, what he wanted. Right. And so like, that's someone who I think, um,
probably like appreciates that he identifies as an angry person. Right.
probably like appreciates that he identifies as an angry person. Right.
probably like appreciates that he identifies as an angry person. Right.
You know, he appreciates that he identifies that way.
You know, he appreciates that he identifies that way.
You know, he appreciates that he identifies that way.