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Chapter 1: What is the main topic of this episode?
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We've also got the Hitter Bait and Tackle Tees. Those are new, baby. If you like to rod and reel them, baby. Get all these and more at theovonstore.com, the only place to get our merch. Today's guest is an expert in the world of anger. He's an author, he's a researcher, he's a dean at the College of Arts, Humanities, and Social Sciences at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay.
We covered a lot of ground, and he has some insightful thoughts, just talking about anger in general, and then just things that, spaces I've had trouble with anger in. I'm very grateful today to have spent time with Dr. Ryan Martenshaw.
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I think the thing I was really, I thought was cool is just the variety of guests you've had on over the years. I mean, it was like, it was impressive. It's a cool. Thanks, man. Yeah, it was a cool group.
Yeah, I mean, there's been some real smart people, some real perverts that have come on here, some real creeps who've had all kinds.
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Chapter 2: Why do we experience anger?
Oh, yeah. Because your perspective is suddenly I've got to take care of myself instead of like we have to take care of each other.
Exactly.
And that gets a little creepy. Exactly. What do we do with pervasive anger at society and ideology situation out of control? Yeah.
I think that's another thing that happened during the pandemic is that I think people, I think a lot of people in the United States and probably globally really started to feel like they couldn't trust each other. And I think that happened in lots of ways, right?
It was sort of a sense of, hey, people aren't going to, they're more interested in themselves than they are in taking care of each other, right? They won't you know, do X, Y, or Z. They won't wear masks. They won't open things up. They're not worried about my finances. They're not, you know, they're only worried about their own thing.
And I think that scared people and led to a lot of animosity amongst people.
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you see stories like the opioid epidemic, and you're like, the fact that the family didn't even go to jail or face any time, and the amount of pain that caused so many families, not to mention deaths. But I think things like that, it makes you start to question. So if you don't even think, you can always kind of question your government.
I think that that's safe and question society and what's going on. It's good to think. curiously, but I feel like that was probably another thing that happened is people were like, I don't know. We, every commercial is about drugs. Like, it's just like, who can I, where can I get valid information and who can I trust? And it probably became scary. You're like, I have to start with myself.
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Chapter 3: What are common triggers for anger?
That's what it used to be like. Yeah. By contrast, mass protests such as Occupy Wall Street formed rapidly but then lacking that underlying resilience created over time, often lost focus, direction, and most important, their potential to affect change.
Interesting. So in some ways it feels like what they're saying is when you put a lot of work into something in advance, then you want to see it through in ways that social media protests don't have that, right? It's like, you know, I've been thinking about this for a week, so I don't need to keep thinking about it. I mean, I don't have as much sunk into this.
No, and if I close the app, I'm not even an activist anymore. Right, right. Interesting. It's kind of interesting, huh? Yeah. I grew up in a home where there was a lot of anger. Right. It was probably our number one emotion that we had. Right. You know, it was just farm to table there. It was like you got it was 100 percent grass fed. All right. All right.
You know, and it was it was just the only way that we communicated. How much of a responsibility is it of parents to like teach kids what their feelings are? Right.
Yeah, I love this. So real quick, when you say there was a lot of anger, was it mostly like outward express, like yelling, screaming?
Yeah, mostly yelling, screaming, throwing things, judgment. Okay. Those are like the main emotions, you know, and then humor. Okay, nice. So, but we, otherwise it was just always anger. you knew somebody was going to be angry.
Where were you in the birth order?
I was number two. I have an older brother and two sisters.
Okay, and the sisters are both younger than you?
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