Dr. Ryan Martin

And I think, I mean, I get why we should be accepting and be supportive, but I think we should also acknowledge that there are some ways of being that might end up being a little healthier than other ways, right? And openness is a great quality, right? And conscientiousness is a great quality. Those things, agreeableness, right?

And I think, I mean, I get why we should be accepting and be supportive, but I think we should also acknowledge that there are some ways of being that might end up being a little healthier than other ways, right? And openness is a great quality, right? And conscientiousness is a great quality. Those things, agreeableness, right?

And I think, I mean, I get why we should be accepting and be supportive, but I think we should also acknowledge that there are some ways of being that might end up being a little healthier than other ways, right? And openness is a great quality, right? And conscientiousness is a great quality. Those things, agreeableness, right?

Those things are the kinds of things that help people be successful in a lot of ways and help them be likable and help them be happy.

Those things are the kinds of things that help people be successful in a lot of ways and help them be likable and help them be happy.

Those things are the kinds of things that help people be successful in a lot of ways and help them be likable and help them be happy.

Yeah. What about in relationships? You guys talk a lot about that. How do you deal with if you have a spouse that you feel like has some anger issues?

Yeah. What about in relationships? You guys talk a lot about that. How do you deal with if you have a spouse that you feel like has some anger issues?

Yeah. What about in relationships? You guys talk a lot about that. How do you deal with if you have a spouse that you feel like has some anger issues?

Yeah, that is really tough, especially because anger issues in families can look lots of different ways, right? Because there's the kind that is really scary and potentially bordering on abuse where the anger is driven at the particular person, right? It's the angry husband yelling at the angry wife or vice versa, right? And that's one way it can look.

Yeah, that is really tough, especially because anger issues in families can look lots of different ways, right? Because there's the kind that is really scary and potentially bordering on abuse where the anger is driven at the particular person, right? It's the angry husband yelling at the angry wife or vice versa, right? And that's one way it can look.

Yeah, that is really tough, especially because anger issues in families can look lots of different ways, right? Because there's the kind that is really scary and potentially bordering on abuse where the anger is driven at the particular person, right? It's the angry husband yelling at the angry wife or vice versa, right? And that's one way it can look.

The other way is just a person who's just angry at the world doesn't necessarily take it out on the family. And that's actually the way my dad was. He was an angry guy. I can count on one hand the number of times he yelled at me. I wasn't the victim. It was usually... the waiter or the gas station attendant or some other driver, you know? And so those, but that still has consequences, right?

The other way is just a person who's just angry at the world doesn't necessarily take it out on the family. And that's actually the way my dad was. He was an angry guy. I can count on one hand the number of times he yelled at me. I wasn't the victim. It was usually... the waiter or the gas station attendant or some other driver, you know? And so those, but that still has consequences, right?

The other way is just a person who's just angry at the world doesn't necessarily take it out on the family. And that's actually the way my dad was. He was an angry guy. I can count on one hand the number of times he yelled at me. I wasn't the victim. It was usually... the waiter or the gas station attendant or some other driver, you know? And so those, but that still has consequences, right?

It still scared me as a kid, right? I mean, yeah, it would have scared me if he were yelling at me, but it also scared me when he's yelling at a stranger. And, you know, those moments can really sort of take a toll I mean, I think relationships are obviously tricky. I think a lot of times with relationships, it's got to be about communication.

It still scared me as a kid, right? I mean, yeah, it would have scared me if he were yelling at me, but it also scared me when he's yelling at a stranger. And, you know, those moments can really sort of take a toll I mean, I think relationships are obviously tricky. I think a lot of times with relationships, it's got to be about communication.

It still scared me as a kid, right? I mean, yeah, it would have scared me if he were yelling at me, but it also scared me when he's yelling at a stranger. And, you know, those moments can really sort of take a toll I mean, I think relationships are obviously tricky. I think a lot of times with relationships, it's got to be about communication.

It's got to be about a person being willing to do the work to try and change.

It's got to be about a person being willing to do the work to try and change.