Dr. Shadé Zahrai

And then she started showing up with that passion and owning that passion.

And that was her reclaiming a label.

But if you have a label like I'm boring or I'm such a procrastinator, you need to shift it into something that is growth oriented or actually positive.

So we hear I'm boring a lot from the people that we work with and we support.

Yeah, when we get down to it, a lot of them will claim that they, funny enough, I have a scar.

I feel like my story is boring.

I don't like talking about myself too much because I genuinely don't think I have an interesting life or interesting story.

So I have this I'm boring narrative.

I don't know where it came from.

Actually, I probably do, but I'm not going to share that.

Go on.

So when I was in high school.

My parents went through a divorce.

It was amicable.

I'm blessed with a truly remarkable family.

It was an amicable divorce.

But naturally, anyone who experiences that, you start to question, could I have done anything differently?

Should I have been more supportive?

Should I have done this or been a better kid?

And so I internalized that.