Dr. Sunita Sah
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So he kept holding me back and I told him to hurry up, come. And then he just like, no, I don't want to go. He was jutting his chin out. And I know that look very, very well now. And he just refused to go. So I tried to pick him up and carry him. He was too heavy. And he just sat down in the middle of the pavement. And whatever I said, I couldn't make him go.
So I had to give up on seeing the flame. And I walked back home with him. And I looked at him and I said, why can't you just be good? And those words stayed with me afterwards because I remember telling my husband about it in the evening and he was like, you sound like those people, do you remember? And I do.
So I had to give up on seeing the flame. And I walked back home with him. And I looked at him and I said, why can't you just be good? And those words stayed with me afterwards because I remember telling my husband about it in the evening and he was like, you sound like those people, do you remember? And I do.
So I had to give up on seeing the flame. And I walked back home with him. And I looked at him and I said, why can't you just be good? And those words stayed with me afterwards because I remember telling my husband about it in the evening and he was like, you sound like those people, do you remember? And I do.
I remember when my son was born, he was a little baby and well-meaning relatives would always be asking me, Oh, is he good? And I was confused. Like, what do you mean, is he good? He's a baby. What they meant was, does he sleep when you want him to? Does he eat when you want him to? Does he do what you want him to do? And this was a powerful realization for me that if...
I remember when my son was born, he was a little baby and well-meaning relatives would always be asking me, Oh, is he good? And I was confused. Like, what do you mean, is he good? He's a baby. What they meant was, does he sleep when you want him to? Does he eat when you want him to? Does he do what you want him to do? And this was a powerful realization for me that if...
I remember when my son was born, he was a little baby and well-meaning relatives would always be asking me, Oh, is he good? And I was confused. Like, what do you mean, is he good? He's a baby. What they meant was, does he sleep when you want him to? Does he eat when you want him to? Does he do what you want him to do? And this was a powerful realization for me that if...
We equate being good with being compliant, doing what other people want. Then we equate also being defiant with being bad. And that's what I was brought up like. So that kept me awake that night, for sure.
We equate being good with being compliant, doing what other people want. Then we equate also being defiant with being bad. And that's what I was brought up like. So that kept me awake that night, for sure.
We equate being good with being compliant, doing what other people want. Then we equate also being defiant with being bad. And that's what I was brought up like. So that kept me awake that night, for sure.
So the manager, her name was Donna Summers. She's an assistant manager in her early 50s, and she's worked here for a while. At 5pm, the phone rings in the small back office, and online is just a deep male voice, someone who identifies himself as Officer Scott. And he says he's investigating a theft. So a customer has had her purse stolen.
So the manager, her name was Donna Summers. She's an assistant manager in her early 50s, and she's worked here for a while. At 5pm, the phone rings in the small back office, and online is just a deep male voice, someone who identifies himself as Officer Scott. And he says he's investigating a theft. So a customer has had her purse stolen.
So the manager, her name was Donna Summers. She's an assistant manager in her early 50s, and she's worked here for a while. At 5pm, the phone rings in the small back office, and online is just a deep male voice, someone who identifies himself as Officer Scott. And he says he's investigating a theft. So a customer has had her purse stolen.
And he describes the person that they think has stolen the purse. That person is a young girl, about 90 pounds, with dark brown hair. So immediately, Donna Summers says, that's Louise. But she's surprised because Louise is quite irresponsible. She's a high school senior and she's never been known for being dishonest in any way. She's hardworking. She's bound for college.
And he describes the person that they think has stolen the purse. That person is a young girl, about 90 pounds, with dark brown hair. So immediately, Donna Summers says, that's Louise. But she's surprised because Louise is quite irresponsible. She's a high school senior and she's never been known for being dishonest in any way. She's hardworking. She's bound for college.
And he describes the person that they think has stolen the purse. That person is a young girl, about 90 pounds, with dark brown hair. So immediately, Donna Summers says, that's Louise. But she's surprised because Louise is quite irresponsible. She's a high school senior and she's never been known for being dishonest in any way. She's hardworking. She's bound for college.
She's looking after her sick mother. And yet that is who they identify as responsible for this theft.
She's looking after her sick mother. And yet that is who they identify as responsible for this theft.
She's looking after her sick mother. And yet that is who they identify as responsible for this theft.
So Officer Scott tells her that they are also investigating Louise for dealing drugs. And it's very serious. The officers are on their way and they need to detain the suspect as soon as possible. They don't want the suspect to get away and they don't want her to get rid of any evidence. So they request Donna Summers restrain the suspect Louise in the back office and follow their instructions.