Drea Nicole

Do you give good advice? You think you give it? I believe I give good advice. Okay, I think you do. I can see that. Okay, so we are about to do Pour Your Heart Out. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds at gmail.com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. You get to skip the line, of course, okay?

So we have some questions, and we are going to give our best advice.

So we have some questions, and we are going to give our best advice.

So we have some questions, and we are going to give our best advice.

I think we kind of touched on that this episode, honestly. Yeah, that's why this is a good question. Yeah.

I think we kind of touched on that this episode, honestly. Yeah, that's why this is a good question. Yeah.

I think we kind of touched on that this episode, honestly. Yeah, that's why this is a good question. Yeah.

I think like survivor's guilt is real. And I think a lot of times you have to understand forgiving yourself is the biggest, is one of the hardest things. I'm personally going through that honestly right now if I'm being vulnerable and honest. And I think you just have to give yourself grace and you have to give yourself time.

I think like survivor's guilt is real. And I think a lot of times you have to understand forgiving yourself is the biggest, is one of the hardest things. I'm personally going through that honestly right now if I'm being vulnerable and honest. And I think you just have to give yourself grace and you have to give yourself time.

I think like survivor's guilt is real. And I think a lot of times you have to understand forgiving yourself is the biggest, is one of the hardest things. I'm personally going through that honestly right now if I'm being vulnerable and honest. And I think you just have to give yourself grace and you have to give yourself time.

I think a lot of times we get mad at ourselves for not getting over something so quick. If you go through something and it's like a month later and you're still crying, you're like, why am I still upset? And you're getting mad at yourself. It takes time to heal. You know, you have to be easy with yourself. The world is already hard on us individually as people, as women.

I think a lot of times we get mad at ourselves for not getting over something so quick. If you go through something and it's like a month later and you're still crying, you're like, why am I still upset? And you're getting mad at yourself. It takes time to heal. You know, you have to be easy with yourself. The world is already hard on us individually as people, as women.

I think a lot of times we get mad at ourselves for not getting over something so quick. If you go through something and it's like a month later and you're still crying, you're like, why am I still upset? And you're getting mad at yourself. It takes time to heal. You know, you have to be easy with yourself. The world is already hard on us individually as people, as women.

So the best thing that you can do for yourself is just go easy on yourself. And give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time. Healing is a journey. And I'm not talking about six, seven, eight months. It takes years to heal. And you have to be willing to have your good days, but also be willing to have your bad days. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be angry.

So the best thing that you can do for yourself is just go easy on yourself. And give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time. Healing is a journey. And I'm not talking about six, seven, eight months. It takes years to heal. And you have to be willing to have your good days, but also be willing to have your bad days. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be angry.

So the best thing that you can do for yourself is just go easy on yourself. And give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time. Healing is a journey. And I'm not talking about six, seven, eight months. It takes years to heal. And you have to be willing to have your good days, but also be willing to have your bad days. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be angry.

I think sometimes when we're sad and we're angry, we feel like we're not supposed to be feeling these things. You're not supposed to be happy every day. That's not normal. Mm-hmm. Being sad is normal. Being mad is normal. Being happy is normal. So I think going through the emotions of actual... Healing is rough. It's hard.

I think sometimes when we're sad and we're angry, we feel like we're not supposed to be feeling these things. You're not supposed to be happy every day. That's not normal. Mm-hmm. Being sad is normal. Being mad is normal. Being happy is normal. So I think going through the emotions of actual... Healing is rough. It's hard.

I think sometimes when we're sad and we're angry, we feel like we're not supposed to be feeling these things. You're not supposed to be happy every day. That's not normal. Mm-hmm. Being sad is normal. Being mad is normal. Being happy is normal. So I think going through the emotions of actual... Healing is rough. It's hard.

But you have to acknowledge that and you have to be okay with not being okay. And I think that's the hardest thing. People are not okay with not being okay. Give yourself the grace. Yeah, give yourself grace, man. Like, you really have to give yourself grace and, like I said, just time to heal.