Drea Nicole

And not in a bad way. I'm saying it's like, you look... That is very... Polished. A mature look. A mature, yeah.

And not in a bad way. I'm saying it's like, you look... That is very... Polished. A mature look. A mature, yeah.

I feel like if it's a trauma bond, if you know it's a trauma bond, then I think you know what to do. Like you need to let it go. Like trauma bonds are not good things. You bonding with somebody over negative, toxic things is not something that you need to hold on to. I feel like there's no sustainability in that. It's no longevity in a relationship like that.

I feel like if it's a trauma bond, if you know it's a trauma bond, then I think you know what to do. Like you need to let it go. Like trauma bonds are not good things. You bonding with somebody over negative, toxic things is not something that you need to hold on to. I feel like there's no sustainability in that. It's no longevity in a relationship like that.

I feel like if it's a trauma bond, if you know it's a trauma bond, then I think you know what to do. Like you need to let it go. Like trauma bonds are not good things. You bonding with somebody over negative, toxic things is not something that you need to hold on to. I feel like there's no sustainability in that. It's no longevity in a relationship like that.

And I feel like you know what you need to do. Also, you're 23 and he is 35. He's 12 years older than you. A lot of the time, I feel like men who are older, they like to date women that are significantly younger than them because they be trying to manipulate you. They know exactly what they trying to do. I think that you need to maybe focus on yourself, explore yourself. He 35, he got two kids.

And I feel like you know what you need to do. Also, you're 23 and he is 35. He's 12 years older than you. A lot of the time, I feel like men who are older, they like to date women that are significantly younger than them because they be trying to manipulate you. They know exactly what they trying to do. I think that you need to maybe focus on yourself, explore yourself. He 35, he got two kids.

And I feel like you know what you need to do. Also, you're 23 and he is 35. He's 12 years older than you. A lot of the time, I feel like men who are older, they like to date women that are significantly younger than them because they be trying to manipulate you. They know exactly what they trying to do. I think that you need to maybe focus on yourself, explore yourself. He 35, he got two kids.

He clearly still taking care of his baby mama. it's a lot of baggage there. And from what it sounds like, from what you wrote, you don't have any baggage. So you need to focus on you. And at the end of the day, if that man want to be with you, and I'm not saying that you should just write a man off just because he has kids and he's you know, he has like a situation or whatever.

He clearly still taking care of his baby mama. it's a lot of baggage there. And from what it sounds like, from what you wrote, you don't have any baggage. So you need to focus on you. And at the end of the day, if that man want to be with you, and I'm not saying that you should just write a man off just because he has kids and he's you know, he has like a situation or whatever.

He clearly still taking care of his baby mama. it's a lot of baggage there. And from what it sounds like, from what you wrote, you don't have any baggage. So you need to focus on you. And at the end of the day, if that man want to be with you, and I'm not saying that you should just write a man off just because he has kids and he's you know, he has like a situation or whatever.

But if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, he's going to find a way to make you feel comfortable and y'all are going to find a way to make it work. If he is doing things that you're not okay with and then on top of that, you think that it's a trauma bond, I think you should walk away. You 23, you don't have nothing to lose. You have nothing but time. Agreed. So, that's my advice.

But if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, he's going to find a way to make you feel comfortable and y'all are going to find a way to make it work. If he is doing things that you're not okay with and then on top of that, you think that it's a trauma bond, I think you should walk away. You 23, you don't have nothing to lose. You have nothing but time. Agreed. So, that's my advice.

But if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, he's going to find a way to make you feel comfortable and y'all are going to find a way to make it work. If he is doing things that you're not okay with and then on top of that, you think that it's a trauma bond, I think you should walk away. You 23, you don't have nothing to lose. You have nothing but time. Agreed. So, that's my advice.

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But he giving all this money to his baby mama. But he's not doing that because he doesn't want to. Because he's thinking, I'm going to date a 23-year-old. She's not going to ask me for nothing. That's why he's not doing it. He's thinking that he can manipulate you. But you just seem, you know, a little smarter for him. So, girl, move on. He'll be all right.

But he giving all this money to his baby mama. But he's not doing that because he doesn't want to. Because he's thinking, I'm going to date a 23-year-old. She's not going to ask me for nothing. That's why he's not doing it. He's thinking that he can manipulate you. But you just seem, you know, a little smarter for him. So, girl, move on. He'll be all right.

But he giving all this money to his baby mama. But he's not doing that because he doesn't want to. Because he's thinking, I'm going to date a 23-year-old. She's not going to ask me for nothing. That's why he's not doing it. He's thinking that he can manipulate you. But you just seem, you know, a little smarter for him. So, girl, move on. He'll be all right.