Drea

But at the end of the day, that's the truth.

So, yes, society have emasculated black men, and it's horrible, and I hate that.

And I feel like when I watch how the world has worked, yes, have we continued to emasculate them?

We have not helped the issue.

I will not say that.

Black, but I will say that if who played a bigger role in making one which way is black men.

Black men has disrespected, hurt, abused, cheated, lied to black women on a more consistent basis than women have hurt the black men.

Black women have been loyal to a fault, okay?

Black women have been designed to stick around even through all the hard times.

So at the end of the day, no, I'm not going to sit here and let you say that black women are masculine because men, all of this stuff.

We are a lot of black women.

You know how much it hurts to continue to be cheated on, lied to, taken out of your softness because a man is not allowing you to thrive in your femininity.

It hurts.

There's a cost that it pays for a man to have a feminine woman.

And the cost is for him to make her feel safe, for him to make her feel comfortable being vulnerable, for him to make her feel like she's in a space where she can thrive and she doesn't have to look over her shoulder or feel like he's cheating on her or lying to her or feel like she cannot really be in a safe space where she can be the woman that she is designed to be, okay?

A woman, when we have... We have to have...

hormonally, less estrogen, more estrogen in our body in order to operate as women.

When we have to work super hard, take out trashes, do all these things, be on edge, be paranoid, be this, we are naturally putting more testosterone in our body and we're not able to be feminine.

Period, point blank.

So when we are with man that you make you want to look up at him and be like, yes, whatever you say, there's men that make you feel that way because they keep you in your soft era.