Drew Burney

Right.

And things like marriage, too, that's going to change.

Having kids, that's going to make you more conscientious, probably, and probably more neurotic, too, to some degree.

The aging process has a lot of developmental milestones that go along with it, and those can, on the margins, shift your certain personality traits.

That really would not have worked out for me, right?

And I accepted very early on, like, that's not going to happen.

I 100% agree with that, that the moment you realize that, oh, this is who I am and I'm okay with that.

Yes.

That's ironically where you get to change the most.

This is very Carl, Carl Rogers.

Right.

The positive self-regard and all of that.

Yes.

It's a, it's a, it's a weird thing.

I didn't feel that in general until like my probably mid to late thirties.

I started feeling that way.

And I even remember talking to some friends and we were talking about,

And I just said out loud for the first time, just kind of not even thinking about it.

I was like, you know, I'm okay with who I am now.

And that was just like, oh, shit, that was.