Drew Burney
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Seemed to replicate.
And then on top of that, in 2018 was really when this kind of all fell apart, or that story fell apart anyway.
It was this big study of about 900 kids, a study by Watts and colleagues, where they found that if you controlled for socioeconomic status, incomes, everything like that, right?
There was no association between delayed gratification and any sort of outcome in the child's life at that point or later on.
It really is just, these kids are basing their strategies on their worldviews, on the narratives that they've come up with, their experiences, and it's not necessarily set in stone.
I can identify quite a bit with that too, actually.
Because I feel like I'm, I like, I always wanted to go out and have adventures.
I want to see the world.
I want to do all that, but you're right.
I'm just around people.
I'm like, but that requires a lot of being around people.
That's interesting too, because like when I quit drinking and I was like, well, now I'm boring and I just want to stay home and I want to introvert.
So we'll get into that.
We'll get into changing adaptations later, but I think for now.
That's an interesting one though, because it's different traits.
The tension of those two things comes to a head, and you reconcile them in some way, and it's not always healthy.
That's interesting.
And that's the point that bears repeating here, right?