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Drew Burney

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2458 total appearances

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SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

That's another thing about it is people are like, it's really hard for me to describe this.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And so, you know, getting a good handle on it's been difficult.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

But one of the things I did notice

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

was that what's really collapsing, so we've talked about this collapse or this disintegration or whatever it is, what's actually collapsing here are values, okay?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

People's values change overnight in these situations, which we did a whole episode on values.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

It's very hard to change your values intentionally, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And usually they feel very innate to us.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

What they found, especially in this, like before the quantum change, what people reported, men would rank things like wealth

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Adventure, achievement, pleasure, being respected as their top values.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Women ranked, family, independence, career, fitting in, attractiveness.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

That was before the change happened.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

After the change, though, all of the men and women converged on really around just a few things.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Spirituality, personal peace, family, inner peace, those kind of like deeper values.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So all of the just complete values were shuffled.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

overnight and just maybe even just a few minutes too so that adaptation itself is what shifted and then everything else organized around that i think it's worth double clicking on the values piece for a moment because

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Correct.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

You will have a higher chance in one of those situations, but it's not guaranteed.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Well, as you said, this has happened once in your life.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And for a lot of people, it doesn't happen at all.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Yeah.