Dylan Mulvaney

It's a great fucking name.

And it's their real name.

And Fightmaster was the first non-binary doctor on Grey's Anatomy.

Very talented person.

And I remember just looking at them being like, I don't know what you've got going on, but I want a little bit of that in my life.

Because I could tell it was somebody that was, you know, there was androgyny, but there was a confidence and an ease there.

And and so I, you know, started growing my hair out.

I think also what non-binary really did for me was it gave me an opportunity to be feminine and release from this kind of toxic idea of like gay culture and being attractive to gay men, because that's a that is still a problem that I think is quite rampant in the community.

Oh, my God.

Okay, but today I can't believe that I get to be the one to tell Monica Lewinsky what a twink is.

A twink is like a smallish feminine gay man.

Often quite hairless, but unfortunately I was just so hairy and I was getting laser hair removal.

You wanted to be a twink.

Well, I was.

That's the thing.

A lot of people don't.

want to be twinks, but you're just, you're a twink.

You were a hairy twink.

I was a hairy twink, which is kind of known as an otter sometimes.

And bears are some of the larger gay men who, you know, are of the hairier sort.