Ed Mylett

So many people are chasing that tale of once I'm achieving something, once I'm really great, then I'll have confidence.

That's not where mine comes from.

Mine comes from intention.

And that's what I recommend in the book.

You told me that, but I don't know what they are.

Yeah.

Thank God.

That's wonderful.

the meat that intent behind going through by making that um well an importance right yeah i think i think most of the things we do great in our life come from love my dad got sober because he loved his family enough to try again your dad got sober enough because he loved you and loved your family enough to try again hopefully loved himself but oftentimes you know we have to find something we love obviously it might not be us but all great things are achieved through love

And that sounds corny with two dudes talking that lift weights and stuff, but the fact of the matter is it's true.

And when I focus on who I love or what I love, that's much bigger than whatever the obstacle is in my way.

And that's always given me the fuel and the energy to persevere where maybe other people quit or gave in.

What do you mean?

What do you mean by that?

Well, self-sabotage comes from that internal identity that whatever you're about to go do, you don't believe you're worthy of.

Or even if you get it, you'll blow it.

You've heard me talk many times about the thermostat analogy.

It's in the book.

But the truth is, if you don't get this internal thermostat, your identity high enough, no matter what you achieve, you're going to turn the air conditioners on in your life and cool it back down again to what you believe you're worth.

I just...