Ed Mylett

If you watch communicators, there are fewer words they use.

It's almost like someone watching on broadcasting.

I want to make sure everybody gets the book, too, because we're going into a lot of stuff.

It's the next conversation, argue less, talk more.

What if you're with somebody who...

I used it earlier, but I want to go a little bit deeper.

They pick on you.

They kind of gnaw at you a little bit.

You know, everything is almost passive aggressive in the way they say things.

And you find yourself almost being put down subtly when you communicate with this person.

And I find this an awful lot lately with couples that are friends of mine, married couples.

There's this subtle dynamic where they both are a little bit

passive aggressive with one another in the way they communicate.

And I feel empathy for the one that I think is the one receiving most of the aggression.

Is there something you can do when you feel like someone's communicating with you that way?

Is there a phraseology or a strategy for that?

Will you do that in reverse?

By the way, this is so good.

Will you do that in reverse if you feel that what you've said has been misinterpreted?

In other words, if you feel like you're... I do this better in business than I do personal life.