Elisa Donovan

But the reason why the narcissist is doing it that way is so that they can continuously make your world smaller and

while gaining access to you from all areas, finances, your housing, your cell phone, your car.

I cannot tell you how many times I have had people say, oh, like they want me to work for them.

So I'm going to leave and build my business with them.

And you're like, ah, right.

So-

Yeah.

So a lot of that where they become their manager and they start doing other deals for them and it just everything goes south very quickly.

So that happens.

And then things slowly start to shift, but not enough where you can say, oh, my God, I got to get out.

It's things like, are you sure you really want to go to work today?

I mean, like your kid's homesick.

they really want you, right?

Like you don't wanna leave them with your mom.

Or it could be, you know your friend Jamie, I know you've been friends with her forever.

But there's just something about her.

I just, I can't put my finger on it.

She never did anything to me, but I don't know if I trust her.

So before you know it, they start to isolate you further and further.

Or, you know, with finances, this is a big one.