Elizabeth Phillips

And, like, all the medications and the failures of different doctors who couldn't help him.

I learned pretty early on I couldn't save him.

So, you know, as a big sister, you're like, I'm supposed to protect... my little brothers, and I couldn't.

Um... So I had, you know, my own therapist walking me through all this.

She was really cool.

She's retired now, but she, um...

Ph.D., Messianic Jew.

So, like, she's ethnically Jewish, but she came to know Christ.

Her housekeeper converted her to Christ.

And she had a really cool faith.

And she helped me understand, like, how to set boundaries.

Like, you don't have to go to every visitation hours.

You don't have to go to all this therapy.

Like, you have to self-care.

Because you're a mom, you're all these other things, too.

You're not just Trey's big sister.

My parents were going through a divorce at the time, too.

It's like, perfect storm.

So, she said, you need to take a year and just grieve.

And I'm a very action-oriented person, Sean, if you can't tell.