Elle

Yeah.

So we dated as a triad for, I would say like about nine to 10 months as a very like, successful, high communication, really healthy experience.

And then

i accidentally got pregnant like by your guy i mean who do you i hope i'm hoping you got pregnant which one did you get pregnant by because you're like by by my guy because at that time it was just us in the triad that was the only relationship okay so the narcissist guy isn't involved anymore correct okay cool and so i ended up you know we

I chose an abortion because it was not a good time and it was not a safe space to actually bring a child into.

And that kind of started to show the cracks in the relationship.

When I needed him to care for me, he chose other people over me.

And at the same time, my mental health was in the trash.

It was, you know, it was one of those things where we were at the beginning of COVID.

I couldn't really talk to anyone.

I was having mental breakdowns because, you know, my boyfriend and my girlfriend, they were having great times together.

I was encouraging them to have individual time.

I wanted them to have, like, go on vacation together, bond.

I wanted to be, like,

a great supportive partner, but they didn't give the same to me.

Like I didn't get the same privileges as to go on dates with her.

I mean, I did go on dates with her, but I just didn't feel like he supported us as much as I supported them.

And so around that same time, I met my current partner.

We're going to call him G. And he and I were working together.

And I just kind of... He talked to me.