Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Elle is Poly, has Two Boyfriends & She’s Very Into Kink & Open Relationships
04 May 2026
Chapter 1: What is Elle's background and how did she get into kink?
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Chapter 2: What challenges did Elle face in her first open relationship?
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Okay, today I have on Elle. Oh my God, Elle has like the most fascinating story.
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Chapter 3: How did Elle navigate her first MFF threesome experience?
She reached out to me to be on the show. They also though, at the same time, I just want to tell you that Elle and her partner, her partner actually started a company called Bitches Love Leather. And it's all custom made like BDSM equipment and clothing and kink stuff. They even have dildos. He hand makes them all. He actually could create custom stuff for you because I asked about a spreader bar.
Yeah.
you're gonna love this stuff on their website but you're gonna love her story i mean it is so super interesting she was a young girl that got into kink she always knew she liked women when she was young she started to go on to fat life and she had all kinds of crazy experiences with guys one that she was doing tons of threesomes with that got wrong with women and then another guy who was like a narcissist dom and she talks about that story that went very awry and then she met
Another guy, she's always been poly. I mean, when you get to her partners now, I mean, you know, she's been in triad. She has two separate guys she's with. One of her guys has four girls. The other guy has just her. The whole story is super interesting. Like I said, it just kept getting more interesting as it went on. But it's not confusing.
Listen, sometimes Polly stories get my brain gives me a fucking headache, but not this one. It's she's very clear about what's going on and what she's into and what's going on with her partners. And it's all great. And I'm going to use the word again. Interesting. You know, I think I said it like 10 times, but it is a super interesting story. You're going to love Elle and her story.
And I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with her. Oh, and I have pictures of her over on my Patreon and Twitter. you will get a link to Bitches Love Leather in the description. The stuff looks really great and it's all handmade and it's like killer stuff, like real leather harnesses, collars, restraints, gags, you name it, they got it. So go check it out.
The link will be in the description. I'm going to be right back on with Elle.
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Chapter 4: What was Elle's experience with a narcissistic dom?
Hi Elle, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing great. How are you? Good. So listen Elle, you're into kink and maybe BDSM, I don't know. You do have a partner who started Bitches in Leather. Bitches love leather, okay? And it's all kinds of like hot kink and BDSM paraphernalia or apparel or all of the above, right? I don't know. How would you pitch it?
yeah it's it's basically handmade leather bondage gear and then we also have silicone toys and basically anything and everything you could want to use in your play scenes we have a little bit of everything well before we get into your life story because that's what we're going to talk about i just need to know because i literally just had a whole thing on i'm like oh my god i've never tried a spreader bar and i want to do you guys have a spreader bar
Oh my God, you're going to say no.
We don't have it on the site. Interesting. We do have like, we do do a lot of custom things, especially for very specific things. Yeah. So we have, we can do any sort of custom thing. That is more on my partner Fox's realm and his stuff.
speciality is literally coming up with the designs for all of the products honestly in a weird way I'm glad I asked because who would have known I mean I had no idea that you're this company does custom stuff which I think is probably like a great thing to add in about the fact that you guys do that and I'm so happy that my spreader bar question prompted that because who would have known
we'll get to the point where you meet your partner, right? This guy that makes all this stuff and is this leather master, but let's get your, and I'll put a link actually to bitches love leather because your stuff looked really cool. I checked it out online beforehand. So we'll put a link in the description for people, but let's get your story. L you sound super young to me.
Can you tell me like around what age you are?
I'm currently, I'm, I'm late twenties, but I started in my kink journey when I was about like 19. Okay. Okay.
That's super young.
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Chapter 5: How did Elle's relationship dynamics change over time?
You're still young to me. Yeah. So what got you into kink? Like, did you always know you had like this side to you even when you were little or like, or what happened at 19 that you got into that? Like you went down that path.
When I was like in kindergarten, junior high, you know, I had a sleepover with my childhood friends and they very much... Girls or boys?
Sorry.
Girls. Okay. And we played the game nervous, you know, and we were, I was raised a very sheltered child. So I knew it was like something I shouldn't have been doing, but I was automatically like very interested and In girls and like it was my first like sexual experience that I genuinely was like, oh, I actually really like girls. And I, so we, that was kind of my first experience.
And I knew I was at least bisexual.
But wait, was that when you were 19 or is this younger than 19?
This was when I was in junior high.
So this is real early and you're with girlfriends and you're playing around and that's when you realize you like girls, but your partner now is a guy, correct?
Yes.
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Chapter 6: What led Elle to start selling leather products at kink events?
And it was something where I was like, I was placating him. I said, okay. Let's do this. I just really want to try something out. So he would go out and he would like connect with other women and then kind of like bring them home basically. Yeah. First, our first threesome was with my like high school friend that had a crush on him and
Like he brought her in and it was, I like to think of my story as very much a gone wrong story.
I love a gone wrong story, by the way, because I feel like people could learn from it, but I also think it's very dramatic and, you know, into it.
Go on. And it was something where I was very much like, I was, I liked the idea, but I actually wasn't emotionally mature enough to handle it.
sharing him in my relationship and so like yes i was in we we had sex with her she had sex with him i ended up kind of like pulling back and watching them have sex as i was having like a panic attack and just sitting there quietly and just like you know doing what you see in porn which is like Just moaning and agreeing and being like, oh yeah, that's so hot.
But were you faking it or were you feeling it as well as the panic at the same time?
I did think it was very hot to watch her. but I did not like watching them together. I, that makes sense. It was very panicky. And I ended up like literally leaving them to sleep in bed to go lay on the couch. And because I just couldn't handle it.
Yeah. Crazy. Right. And you're so young that you didn't even know how to speak up for yourself. And you're just like sitting there with all of that just dumped on you by yourself on the couch. You poor thing. Oh my God.
Yeah, it was. And you know, I, I, would say that probably if i hadn't been so into women and like wanting more i would have quit right then and there because it was so difficult and i just was like why am i torturing myself like this yeah
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Chapter 7: How does Elle manage her current polyamorous relationships?
Yeah, totally. Of course. Well, listen, you know, unless you did it 10 more times after that and kept torturing yourself, you know, you didn't know it was going to be torture going in. So that's where you could give yourself a break, right? You kind of tried it. You didn't go in thinking this is going to be horrifying, right? But the minute you saw it, you didn't want to ever see it again.
You know, I get that. How would you have known?
Yeah. And I think that that's why I was like, Okay, maybe it was just the wrong situation.
Oh, so you tried it again.
Oh, yes. Okay. So I continued that relationship with him. And he like, continued to go out like he met another girl. He was, we met at the dog park, which is very Polly of us. Uh huh.
And
You know, he would he spent so much time talking to her and I very much like I didn't talk to her until like he brought her back over to the house. And then I was like, oh, I actually really like this girl.
Okay.
And he wanted to sleep with her so badly, but she didn't want to sleep with him.
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Chapter 8: What insights does Elle share about her journey in the BDSM community?
And when he came home and like found us like he could tell that we had sex. He was incredibly upset and angry and just devastated that this girl that he really liked didn't want to sleep with him, but instead wanted to sleep with me.
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And so that kind of was, I think that was the first point where I was like, okay, like the interest in women is not just like, like, it doesn't have to do with him. it had to do with like what I wanted. It was something that I didn't, I didn't need him to be there to be involved with women.
Right. And most likely it would be better if he wasn't involved there because both times, you know, him being there was a problem. The first time it was because you were jealous. The second time was because he was jealous.
Yes, absolutely.
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