Ellen

I guess I'll start. I was the one who initially called in.

I guess I'll start. I was the one who initially called in.

So my question, my broad question is, how do I kind of let go and stop obsessing over my father-in-law's abuse to my husband and my husband's siblings? And just why I feel the need, like I've taken on this role of like, the person who needs to make him pay or that calls him to the carpet. And I'm obsessing about it. I've basically broken every relationship with his siblings.

So my question, my broad question is, how do I kind of let go and stop obsessing over my father-in-law's abuse to my husband and my husband's siblings? And just why I feel the need, like I've taken on this role of like, the person who needs to make him pay or that calls him to the carpet. And I'm obsessing about it. I've basically broken every relationship with his siblings.

So my question, my broad question is, how do I kind of let go and stop obsessing over my father-in-law's abuse to my husband and my husband's siblings? And just why I feel the need, like I've taken on this role of like, the person who needs to make him pay or that calls him to the carpet. And I'm obsessing about it. I've basically broken every relationship with his siblings.

He and I have had issues over it. And I don't know how to get past his bad behavior because I feel like he's never had to be called out for it. He's just got to live his life normally while I've just over the years learned about all these like awful things he's done.

He and I have had issues over it. And I don't know how to get past his bad behavior because I feel like he's never had to be called out for it. He's just got to live his life normally while I've just over the years learned about all these like awful things he's done.

He and I have had issues over it. And I don't know how to get past his bad behavior because I feel like he's never had to be called out for it. He's just got to live his life normally while I've just over the years learned about all these like awful things he's done.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Um, I had a great childhood.

Um, I had a great childhood.

Um, I had a great childhood.

I, you know, two parent households, um, still very involved. They live next door to us. So, um, Oh God help you, Drew.

I, you know, two parent households, um, still very involved. They live next door to us. So, um, Oh God help you, Drew.

I, you know, two parent households, um, still very involved. They live next door to us. So, um, Oh God help you, Drew.

It is in a lot of ways. Yeah. So yeah, I think that's why like learning all of this is even more frustrating. Like I got glimpses of it. He and I met in third grade, so we've known each other forever and ever. And so I've known his family forever and ever. And I knew his parents were like stricter as we were dating in high school, but like

It is in a lot of ways. Yeah. So yeah, I think that's why like learning all of this is even more frustrating. Like I got glimpses of it. He and I met in third grade, so we've known each other forever and ever. And so I've known his family forever and ever. And I knew his parents were like stricter as we were dating in high school, but like

It is in a lot of ways. Yeah. So yeah, I think that's why like learning all of this is even more frustrating. Like I got glimpses of it. He and I met in third grade, so we've known each other forever and ever. And so I've known his family forever and ever. And I knew his parents were like stricter as we were dating in high school, but like