Emily Vernem

Go on.

Yeah, I actually thought that one of the good photos to send would be an official school primary photo because...

You can learn a lot about somebody just by looking at that.

And you can judge what your future kids might look like.

Yeah, I think that's actually a good one.

I reckon send me a picture of you from primary school.

Oh, my God, Brett and I would never have got together.

Wait, so shoes are a deal breaker for you?

Oh, God, yes.

I have one more thing I want to ask from Miranda Julys.

So she says, send this message to your best friend now.

And the best friend is, and it's basically like, describe me.

But she also says, now send it to your ex, your most recent ex.

Oh, no.

And what do they say about you?

Exactly.

And I think that's what that question's getting to, that they don't really want people who have really toxic relationships with their exes.

Because I've got lots of my divorce friends who go on dates say the biggest red flag is you sit down with a guy and he starts bitching about his ex-wife.

Yeah.

Like immediately.