Emma Chamberlain
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I'll go back to that later because that immediately to me sounds toxic.
So I guess in my research or whatever, I just kind of wrote it off.
I was like, oh, I'll put a pin in that for now.
I'm trying to find stuff that is maybe less obvious.
Do you know what I mean?
Because...
Based on my understanding of the word detached, detachment, the concept of being detached in love, to me, out the gate, sounded like a bad idea.
Sounded toxic, okay?
Just based on my vague knowledge of what that word means.
So I put a pin in it, continued my research, found a bunch of modern toxic dating advice, and then I eventually went back to detachment.
I was like, last but not least, what is this all about?
And I clicked the first video I found about detachment and love.
And I was shocked at what I heard.
I was like, wait a minute.
This is not toxic at all.
That's it.
It's just not toxic at all.
And so I was like, oh, okay.
I guess I'm not adding that to my list of toxic dating advice.
And then I let it go.