Emma Chamberlain

but also vice versa.

If shit's kind of not going so well in your career, well, luckily you have all this other stuff that can help support you emotionally in the meantime.

Do you know what I mean?

That's why I think it's so important in life to balance your priorities, balance your energy.

You know, you shouldn't ever be too focused on one thing.

If you're feeling dependent on your partner, you're putting too much energy into your partner.

Now, don't get me wrong.

We shouldn't neglect our partner.

But if this rings true to you at all, then you know what I'm talking about.

And I don't even need to explain anymore.

Moving on.

Somebody said, I sometimes struggle to express my opinions and end up just agreeing with others, even though I don't really feel that way on the inside.

How do I get more confident speaking my truth?

I am myself a recovering people pleaser, and I still have moments where I people please, even though I know better.

I still have moments where I do it.

This is something that I'm actively working on.

I think I'll probably be working on it for the rest of my life.

I don't know that I'll ever arrive at a place where I'm just someone who's 120% comfortable with

saying, no, I don't agree with that.

Nah, I don't like that.