Emma Chamberlain
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Maybe it's not that weird.
That shit happens all the time, you know?
Maybe if you just sort of changed your perspective on it, if you used a bit of mindfulness to work on not overthinking it, and you just treat your ex-best friend with brief politeness and professionalism when you see her, it might slowly just become your new normal.
Yeah, it is weird to be besties with somebody and then to become kind of strangers again.
Yeah, that is weird, but it is also...
not that big of a deal and it's also not that unusual, right?
So that would be my other suggestion.
If you really don't want to have a conversation about it, you could just change your perspective and be like, wait, in the grand scheme of life and things, this is not that crazy.
This is not that weird.
This is not really anything to overthink.
Like, yeah, it's a little bit uncomfortable that we're in the same environment, but at the same time,
Stranger things definitely have happened.
You know what I mean?
It's not that weird.
And if you both just decide to not make it weird, it won't be weird.
And you could lead by example in that.
And you could do that first, you know?
But I would say, I would suggest to just have a conversation.
I think that's a much better option.
More enjoyable.