Emma Chamberlain
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Take care of yourself.
Have discipline.
Work ethic to the best of your ability.
Live a life that you're proud of.
This, again, will make it easy for opinions that don't matter, thoughts about you that don't matter to just roll off your back.
Now I know it's easier said than done, but I've made way too many episodes detailing how to do these things, how to actually practice them in your life.
I don't need to get into it again.
Like we're all sick of it.
We're all bored.
And last but not least, mindfulness.
Remind yourself of the reality of the situations, okay?
If somebody doesn't like you, romantic or platonic, it's not necessarily because there's something wrong with you, because you're gross, because you suck, because you're horrible, because you're annoying, because you're cringe, because...
because you're not cute.
It doesn't necessarily mean that you just might not be their cup of tea.
That could be simply it.
And you know what?
If you have trust in your sense of self, if you've built trust in your sense of self, when someone doesn't like you, romantic or platonic, it's very easy to be like, eh, I'm just not their cup of tea because I am kind of awesome.
I've done the work.
I'm a morally good person.
I respect myself because I make promises and I fulfill them.