Emma Chamberlain

Like we can't control if somebody that we're dating cheats on us.

We can't control if they have fun without us.

We can't control...

If their feelings about us change, we can't control any of that.

I think that we think that we can through our actions.

Like we think like if we're the perfectest, most perfect person in a relationship that that would never happen.

But is that true?

It's like, no, I actually sort of am starting to believe that there's no such thing as being like so perfect that somebody could never leave you.

Like even that doesn't work.

I think it's sort of a relief to believe that people are going to figure out who you are, whether you like it or not, and they're either going to like it or they're not.

And that's it.

Like, you can put on a show all you want, but I don't think it works.

I think eventually people will see through it.

Eventually.

You cannot keep up the charade for that long.

And eventually they will see through it.

And so, to me, that's kind of a relief, right?

And again, maybe that's not true.

Maybe you can put on a charade your whole fucking life and, I mean...

Sounds miserable, but, you know, you could do it.