Emma Chamberlain

Watch the respect build.

I think having this sort of relationship with yourself where you're making goals for yourself and then making a promise to yourself that you will fulfill it and then doing it, that process really helps with building self-respect and self-esteem.

In addition to that, I think making the effort to form a set of solid personal beliefs makes it easier to trust your perception of yourself.

If you have a solid set of morals, values, you know what you think is right and wrong.

And then if you live by that,

to the best of your ability, it's going to be really hard for anyone's random opinion of you to shake you because you have such a solid sense of morality and you're living, you're abiding by it.

So if somebody tries to like, I don't know, if somebody rejects you or doesn't want you in their life anymore, you're like, I don't really, okay, because I'm kind of, I'm a good person.

I'm doing the work.

So your loss, you know, whatever.

It's easier to let other people's opinions or thoughts of you roll off your back if you're really locked into that moral compass.

You trust yourself.

You trust that you're a good person.

And you trust that if people don't like you or if they disagree with you or if they don't wanna hang out with you, that it's not because you're not a good person.

You are a good person.

It's something else.

And who cares what it is?

Because at the end of the day, the most important thing is that you're a good person.

You know what I mean?

Okay, next, live a life that you're proud of.

Treat people kindly.