Emma Chamberlain

No, I wouldn't say that, actually.

I would say it just feels clearer in my brain than ever.

It feels sharp and refined in a way that has really been helpful for me in my life recently.

It's about releasing expectations about the future so that one can enjoy the moment and analyze one's actions rationally as they occur and make smart decisions about the next move in the relationship.

You know what I mean?

If you're all...

Like, you know, if you've decided that this is the person you're going to marry on like the fifth date or even a year in, and you've decided that perhaps too soon, depending on your life and circumstances.

doesn't leave any room to potentially be wrong.

And sometimes you're wrong about those things, especially in dating.

Where like at first you're like, oh my God, this is the love of my life.

And then you get to know each other a little better and you're like, you know what?

We're actually not that compatible.

And see, I've been the type in the past to like make up my mind really quickly.

Like, oh, I'm gonna marry this person.

Yep, this is the person I'm gonna marry.

And then it doesn't work out.

We're not actually that compatible.

We should not get married.

We are not good for each other.

And I will stay in relationships longer than I should because I kind of made that decision, right?