Emma Chamberlain

And that's okay.

I'm going to let it happen to me.

and let the answers become clear to me.

I'm not going to jump to conclusions about the answers.

That's not to say that you won't know that somebody's like your soulmate on your first date.

It's definitely probably possible.

Definitely probably possible.

But I think the detachment from the outcome not only relieves a lot of anxiety, because then you're not trying to make sure it's perfect, everything's unfolding perfectly, but also too,

you approach judging this person more rationally.

Now, I think what's been the most interesting about going down this rabbit hole is that in the moment I was like, oh, this is interesting.

And like, I agree with all of this.

And I've kind of held all these beliefs, you know, somewhat loosely in my head for, you know, a while now.

But I think what was the most interesting is how it stuck with me and how it sort of changed the way I approach life.

Like, no, it doesn't change the way that I approach things, but I feel like it's just given me a sense of clarity.

And I know I've said that a lot in this episode.

It's like, Emma, you've said 18 times that, you know, this is like gone from the leaning tower of Pisa to the Louvre.

Okay.

We're no longer leaning.

We're very solid.

We're very upright.