Emma Chamberlain

And I...

have seen this sort of creep into every category of my life, whether it's dating, whether it's work, whether it's friendship, whether it's even hobbies.

Like it's just, it's creeped into everything in a way that I think has been incredibly helpful and beneficial to me.

And so I just thought I'd discuss it with you all.

And hey, maybe it was helpful.

Maybe it was helpful.

Maybe it wasn't.

Maybe you're like, Emma,

you're on like, you're kind of sounding like a dummy today and that's okay.

If this is like old news to you, this is whatever.

Listen, you got there first, you win.

You got there first and you win.

But like, I can't, I can't even tell you all how often I'm like closing my eyes and thinking about the concept of the threads, like how tightly woven I am to something.

Like how tightly woven am I to this person?

to this goal in my career, you know, to this whatever.

How tightly woven am I to that?

And how can I loosen those threads a little bit to maintain a healthy sort of balance?

And I think the beautiful thing about it is I've applied it to so many different things and it's only benefited my life.

Like when it comes to say like dating, for example.

Okay.