Emma Chamberlain

I'm not even worried.

Do you know what I mean?

I used to be like, I used to be so worried in dating that

And especially in singlehood, you know, very concerned with the outcome, concerned about how a guy I'm talking to feels about me, really like overtaken by that.

And listen, there are still moments where perhaps that happens to an extent, but then I remember the concept of detachment.

I take a moment of mindfulness and I sort of allow it to calm me down, you know?

And then you know what comes from that?

Enjoying the moment more.

enjoying it.

Same thing goes with career.

I can have a lot of anxiety about my career.

in ways that are maybe a bit unconventional, but the job itself is a bit unconventional.

It's a bit odd, you know?

And I have a lot of anxiety about it.

And when I'm having anxiety about it, I'm like, okay, you need to detach a little bit.

You need to loosen the threads a little bit.

Some of your threads are too tight.

Ooh, that's what it is.

God, that's what it is.

When I feel anxious about something, okay, whether it's dating or it's,