Emma Grede

You need to have like a concrete vision to like, how do I want to live?

What is important to me?

Not what did I see on social?

Like, what do I want to do and how do I want to live?

And then how do I match that back with my behaviors?

And that's when you start saying no to a bunch of stuff.

Oh my gosh, what a place to start.

First of all, I feel like you have such a familiar face to me.

It's so weird when you meet someone that you've known on the telly forever and ever.

So I'm like, oh, I know her.

No, it's not even close to the equation.

And it's so interesting because I love where you start and talking about at the end of the day, I wrote this book because I wanted to serve women.

I didn't want to create something that was yet another impossible standard and sort of gaslighting because I think somewhere between this idea of like,

You can manifest everything and put it on a vision board and it will come.

And then this like other, you know, total side that feels unreachable.

We don't really have the truth.

And I think if I can do anything well and if I should do anything well, it should be to write something down that is my truth.

Like here are the things that work for me.

And I don't sit here and say this is what's for everybody.

But it's like if you want an exceptional career, that is going to have to be met with extraordinary effort.