Emma

And so obviously we had to rely on our parents to make time to get us together and to allow us to, you know, develop a relationship growing up.

And I wasn't really given that opportunity.

We have relationship now as adults.

But, you know, you have different bonds with people that you grow up with as children versus meeting them as an adult.

So she is still a child, of course, but, you know, as she,

keeps growing up as they do.

I just, I start, it just weighs more on me on what I should do.

And our co-parenting relationship has come a really long way.

We're doing really great right now.

And so I don't want to rock the boat, but I just, I feel like, like you said, it's going to come up eventually.

And I don't want to have to be the one to look her in the eye and say, yeah, I knew about this all these years.

And I just, I didn't say anything.

I don't know, to be honest, because he's such a great dad with our daughter.

It is something that has really confused me a lot.

I think he just, no.

I think it has a lot to do with the mom he doesn't want anything to do with, but I don't know.

It's a really weird dynamic.

And the other mom very much so wants our daughters to have a relationship, but she wants nothing to do with him.

She doesn't want him to be in her daughter's life.

So that's a little bit weird.