Emma

And how long have they known this?

And why weren't these things talked to me?

We have joint custody.

I have her the majority of the time just because of his job.

Yes.

Oh, yeah.

I'm very, very much.

Even on the days when she's supposed to come to my house, I make sure she knows, like, if you want to stay at your dad's for any reason, don't ever feel bad to say that and vice versa.

You know, if you don't want to go there, just tell me and we can have that talk with him.

So we're both very flexible about that.

And like I said, we've come a very long way and everything's great right now.

So it feels it just feels icky to even just to know this is going to rock the boat.

But I just don't see how we can keep ignoring it.

But yeah, I definitely feel like that's the right move.

It's more about just the timing, but

I mean, I'm anxious because things are good, but I think that's also maybe that will be helpful because things are good that maybe he will be more receptive to.

You know, like, hey, when are we going to address this elephant in the room, so to speak?

When's the right time?

I do like that idea of maybe talking to someone and

And then maybe I could offer that person as kind of a resource to him as well.