Emmanuel

First date, bar date, pretty standard. Beyoncé actually came on in the bar in the background. I was like, oh, what do you think about Beyoncé? And he was like, I don't understand what the big deal is about her. Like, women act like they're in a cult or something. And it's like, they seem like crazy. I was like, oh, well, I really like her. And like, I don't really think I'm in a cult.

First date, bar date, pretty standard. Beyoncé actually came on in the bar in the background. I was like, oh, what do you think about Beyoncé? And he was like, I don't understand what the big deal is about her. Like, women act like they're in a cult or something. And it's like, they seem like crazy. I was like, oh, well, I really like her. And like, I don't really think I'm in a cult.

No, he did not. Didn't care to. And maybe didn't care to hear me talk in general is what it seemed like.

No, he did not. Didn't care to. And maybe didn't care to hear me talk in general is what it seemed like.

Ironically enough, my current boyfriend had no idea who Beyoncé was, who's the only person who had that response.

Ironically enough, my current boyfriend had no idea who Beyoncé was, who's the only person who had that response.

That he just needed like some education. He's older and he's not from this country and like doesn't listen to music really. And like by the second date, he had read the entire Wikipedia page for me and he knew Beyoncé's birthday and that she was married to Jay-Z and he knew about the elevator fight. So he listened to your opinion. Yeah, it ended up being a green flag.

That he just needed like some education. He's older and he's not from this country and like doesn't listen to music really. And like by the second date, he had read the entire Wikipedia page for me and he knew Beyoncé's birthday and that she was married to Jay-Z and he knew about the elevator fight. So he listened to your opinion. Yeah, it ended up being a green flag.

Now I talk to him about Beyonce all the time, and I don't necessarily think he's like, he's not going out to like Beyonce concerts or anything, but he understands how important she is and how important she is to me and lets me rant about her. So that's all you ever really want, right?

Now I talk to him about Beyonce all the time, and I don't necessarily think he's like, he's not going out to like Beyonce concerts or anything, but he understands how important she is and how important she is to me and lets me rant about her. So that's all you ever really want, right?

Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas. So the numbers, just to get through it quickly or efficiently, the numbers are $94,000 in debt, $56,000 from a car. The car max value would be $40,000 to $43,000, and I'm paying $1,200 per month for that.

Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas. So the numbers, just to get through it quickly or efficiently, the numbers are $94,000 in debt, $56,000 from a car. The car max value would be $40,000 to $43,000, and I'm paying $1,200 per month for that.

Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas. So the numbers, just to get through it quickly or efficiently, the numbers are $94,000 in debt, $56,000 from a car. The car max value would be $40,000 to $43,000, and I'm paying $1,200 per month for that.

Yeah. So, yeah. Right. Exactly. Exactly. So my story is kind of like a five year timeline straight out of college. I moved to California so I can continue my college relationship after working at home. The job I had was like miserable. And there just wasn't any growth in it. So I decided to just take the jump. I followed love and things were working out.

Yeah. So, yeah. Right. Exactly. Exactly. So my story is kind of like a five year timeline straight out of college. I moved to California so I can continue my college relationship after working at home. The job I had was like miserable. And there just wasn't any growth in it. So I decided to just take the jump. I followed love and things were working out.

Yeah. So, yeah. Right. Exactly. Exactly. So my story is kind of like a five year timeline straight out of college. I moved to California so I can continue my college relationship after working at home. The job I had was like miserable. And there just wasn't any growth in it. So I decided to just take the jump. I followed love and things were working out.

I ended up becoming a mortgage loan officer. And so I made great money at a young age, making like over 10K a month. But, you know, that didn't last for a long time. The industry died because the rates crashed. After that, I got into recruiting. Same thing. I made amazing money. I was making $50 an hour, and I was sugar daddy. Everything was fine.

I ended up becoming a mortgage loan officer. And so I made great money at a young age, making like over 10K a month. But, you know, that didn't last for a long time. The industry died because the rates crashed. After that, I got into recruiting. Same thing. I made amazing money. I was making $50 an hour, and I was sugar daddy. Everything was fine.

I ended up becoming a mortgage loan officer. And so I made great money at a young age, making like over 10K a month. But, you know, that didn't last for a long time. The industry died because the rates crashed. After that, I got into recruiting. Same thing. I made amazing money. I was making $50 an hour, and I was sugar daddy. Everything was fine.

the economy, you know, it crashed at mass layoffs again. And so now, you know, now I'm pretty much just, I've been doing everything. It's not a work ethic problem. It's a, things just haven't really been swinging my way, but I've still been working and it's just kind of like a paycheck to paycheck situation.