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Emmy Moore

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3042 total appearances

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

Then I'd go to high school and nothing worked out. I tried talking to boys and when I tell you, I was trying to fulfill my so much of my insecurities and just talking and dating men that was a constant cycle i was stuck in probably till about 2023 early end of 2022 and it was this constant cycle of putting my worth in hands of men who did not give a crap about me

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

Then I'd go to high school and nothing worked out. I tried talking to boys and when I tell you, I was trying to fulfill my so much of my insecurities and just talking and dating men that was a constant cycle i was stuck in probably till about 2023 early end of 2022 and it was this constant cycle of putting my worth in hands of men who did not give a crap about me

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And so I started to speak to more people after high school. I was in these like situationships, really elongated talking stages, which were absolutely exhausting. I think the talking stage is such a weird thing. I... I feel like I consider the talking stage dating and I consider what people call dating in a relationship.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And so I started to speak to more people after high school. I was in these like situationships, really elongated talking stages, which were absolutely exhausting. I think the talking stage is such a weird thing. I... I feel like I consider the talking stage dating and I consider what people call dating in a relationship.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So I would say that I've dated people, but I wasn't in a relationship with them to where they were like my boyfriend and I was their girlfriend. But I dated them like we had a romantic interest and I was dating a guy talking to a whole bunch of people. The talking stage is absolutely tedious and exhausting.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So I would say that I've dated people, but I wasn't in a relationship with them to where they were like my boyfriend and I was their girlfriend. But I dated them like we had a romantic interest and I was dating a guy talking to a whole bunch of people. The talking stage is absolutely tedious and exhausting.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

When I say it is absolutely draining to speak and give your all to a person for usually about two or three months just for one person to leave you in the dirt and then you have to pick up all the pieces, that is probably one of the most exhausting trials I had to continuously go through through the early part of my 20s and through my late teens.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

When I say it is absolutely draining to speak and give your all to a person for usually about two or three months just for one person to leave you in the dirt and then you have to pick up all the pieces, that is probably one of the most exhausting trials I had to continuously go through through the early part of my 20s and through my late teens.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

it is so exhausting to find someone to be pursued by another person when everybody's just trying to figure out who the heck they are and what they're supposed to do because you'll talk to people and realize oh like this is a cool person and relationships don't work out mostly for one reason and it's because either one or both parties don't try enough

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

it is so exhausting to find someone to be pursued by another person when everybody's just trying to figure out who the heck they are and what they're supposed to do because you'll talk to people and realize oh like this is a cool person and relationships don't work out mostly for one reason and it's because either one or both parties don't try enough

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And whenever I was in these situationships and a lot of these talking stages, I was always talking to the same types of men, whether if they were athletes or part of some sort of college or looked a certain way. Not even if they looked a certain way, they all had the same attributes. The number one attribute that was a cycle in all these decoy relationships I was pursuing was

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And whenever I was in these situationships and a lot of these talking stages, I was always talking to the same types of men, whether if they were athletes or part of some sort of college or looked a certain way. Not even if they looked a certain way, they all had the same attributes. The number one attribute that was a cycle in all these decoy relationships I was pursuing was

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

was being absolutely nonchalant and apathetic. I have no idea why a very intentional, sensitive woman would pursue a man who was completely nonchalant and apathetic. Nonchalant men in the world is probably one of the most aggravating people to work with, especially relationally. I had a

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

was being absolutely nonchalant and apathetic. I have no idea why a very intentional, sensitive woman would pursue a man who was completely nonchalant and apathetic. Nonchalant men in the world is probably one of the most aggravating people to work with, especially relationally. I had a

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

that I've spoken to and etc but the moment that I messed up and the moment that a flaw came out of me they were done and it was so funny because I was putting up with all these boys dummy stuff for all these months but then the moment like an insecurity comes out they're like oh no you're done

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

that I've spoken to and etc but the moment that I messed up and the moment that a flaw came out of me they were done and it was so funny because I was putting up with all these boys dummy stuff for all these months but then the moment like an insecurity comes out they're like oh no you're done

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

baby boy i was putting up with all your stuff this whole time but the moment something that just takes you off just a little bit comes out of me you're done and i started to learn about relationships is that they rarely fail if one person isn't willing to just pick up the pieces and accept that the other person is flawed and i believe that god has instilled the grace in inside of me because i want him christian and i'm with him and i accept his gospel and who jesus is

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

baby boy i was putting up with all your stuff this whole time but the moment something that just takes you off just a little bit comes out of me you're done and i started to learn about relationships is that they rarely fail if one person isn't willing to just pick up the pieces and accept that the other person is flawed and i believe that god has instilled the grace in inside of me because i want him christian and i'm with him and i accept his gospel and who jesus is

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

that I was able to carry a grace and a forgiveness into relationships that I was trying to pursue, because let's be realistic, as I look back onto my old relationships, these men were not pursuing me. I was being hyper-masculine and hyper-individualism in being a woman and trying to seek, offend, and find for my own to where I was pursuing these men. So already I'm out of order.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

that I was able to carry a grace and a forgiveness into relationships that I was trying to pursue, because let's be realistic, as I look back onto my old relationships, these men were not pursuing me. I was being hyper-masculine and hyper-individualism in being a woman and trying to seek, offend, and find for my own to where I was pursuing these men. So already I'm out of order.