Emmy Moore

After God took me out of the season of dating and dating and dating, I then had to kind of look at the spirit of abandonment in the eye and deal with that. Because I think we could talk about being single and talking to people and how tedious and exhausting it is in the talking stage and going in and out of relationships and losing your trust and you're talking to people and then they abandon you.

After God took me out of the season of dating and dating and dating, I then had to kind of look at the spirit of abandonment in the eye and deal with that. Because I think we could talk about being single and talking to people and how tedious and exhausting it is in the talking stage and going in and out of relationships and losing your trust and you're talking to people and then they abandon you.

and they betray you, and they tell you one thing, or they're leading you on, and they tell you, oh, well, I like you, and you're so pretty, but then they don't want to build a future with you, and it's like, well, I thought you said you liked me, I thought you said that I was pretty, I thought you said that, you know, you like every single attribute about me, but you don't want to date me, makes no sense, and a lot of the times was because they were insecure, or not confident, and they actually didn't know who they were, and instead of actually them dealing with that, they took it out on the person that was trying to pursue them, it's so exhausting, and way before I,

and they betray you, and they tell you one thing, or they're leading you on, and they tell you, oh, well, I like you, and you're so pretty, but then they don't want to build a future with you, and it's like, well, I thought you said you liked me, I thought you said that I was pretty, I thought you said that, you know, you like every single attribute about me, but you don't want to date me, makes no sense, and a lot of the times was because they were insecure, or not confident, and they actually didn't know who they were, and instead of actually them dealing with that, they took it out on the person that was trying to pursue them, it's so exhausting, and way before I,

I just feel like the Lord wants me to talk about this. So one of the things before I go into this next topic of like abandonment and neglect and like discerning that and how God really took me through that route and conquering that is one

I just feel like the Lord wants me to talk about this. So one of the things before I go into this next topic of like abandonment and neglect and like discerning that and how God really took me through that route and conquering that is one

one of the things that Malik did that meant a lot to me in the beginning stages of us talking because talking stages are exhausting me and Malik met as friends so we weren't we weren't like talking like oh I like you you like me in the beginning of us speaking to one another it was very friendly Malik and I's relationship was built off of a foundation of a friendship um

one of the things that Malik did that meant a lot to me in the beginning stages of us talking because talking stages are exhausting me and Malik met as friends so we weren't we weren't like talking like oh I like you you like me in the beginning of us speaking to one another it was very friendly Malik and I's relationship was built off of a foundation of a friendship um

What I loved about Malik the most when we first started talking, even though it wasn't romantic, is that three days in to me and Malik talking consecutively, he immediately communicated his intentions towards me. On the third day, he sent me a voicemail memo and he said, hey, I know we've been talking for three days straight and I know that, you know, God's not calling me today.

What I loved about Malik the most when we first started talking, even though it wasn't romantic, is that three days in to me and Malik talking consecutively, he immediately communicated his intentions towards me. On the third day, he sent me a voicemail memo and he said, hey, I know we've been talking for three days straight and I know that, you know, God's not calling me today.

He's not calling you today. And also I just got out of a relationship. I just want to let you know that I have no intentions to lead you on. And I have every intention to build a relationship with you. And then at the end, he says, but if something happens, it happens, which has indicated to me that he likes me, but just, we just weren't going into a talking stage.

He's not calling you today. And also I just got out of a relationship. I just want to let you know that I have no intentions to lead you on. And I have every intention to build a relationship with you. And then at the end, he says, but if something happens, it happens, which has indicated to me that he likes me, but just, we just weren't going into a talking stage.

But what I admired about Malik is that Malik was not trying to waste my time. And that was the first time somebody did that for me. So where we were talking for three days straight and he said, Hey, I know what this looks like. And I'm going to tell you what it isn't. I'm looking to build a friendship with you. If a relationship comes out of it, cool.

But what I admired about Malik is that Malik was not trying to waste my time. And that was the first time somebody did that for me. So where we were talking for three days straight and he said, Hey, I know what this looks like. And I'm going to tell you what it isn't. I'm looking to build a friendship with you. If a relationship comes out of it, cool.

But this is my intentions right now because I don't want to have any avenue to where I could possibly lead you on, even if it isn't my intention. And so a lot of men like fail to just address that. I think even women need to be better about asking those intentions when they're pursuing men. if they're kingdom or not. Even if you're in the world, I think you should ask for intentions.

But this is my intentions right now because I don't want to have any avenue to where I could possibly lead you on, even if it isn't my intention. And so a lot of men like fail to just address that. I think even women need to be better about asking those intentions when they're pursuing men. if they're kingdom or not. Even if you're in the world, I think you should ask for intentions.

Like, what is your intentions of speaking to me? Do you want a friendship? Do you want to cultivate a friendship? Or are you looking to build something with me? Are you looking to date? What is it? And you don't have to go super deep. It's just kind of like, what is your goal? Are you ready for a relationship?

Like, what is your intentions of speaking to me? Do you want a friendship? Do you want to cultivate a friendship? Or are you looking to build something with me? Are you looking to date? What is it? And you don't have to go super deep. It's just kind of like, what is your goal? Are you ready for a relationship?

Because if you're not, then we shouldn't talk and flirt and play with each other's feelings just to leave the other person in the dirt. And I think we would make a lot more mature decisions and we would be in a lot more mature relationships if people were just more honest and if people were just more confrontational towards what they really needed in the season.

Because if you're not, then we shouldn't talk and flirt and play with each other's feelings just to leave the other person in the dirt. And I think we would make a lot more mature decisions and we would be in a lot more mature relationships if people were just more honest and if people were just more confrontational towards what they really needed in the season.