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Emmy Moore

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3042 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

That's number one. Is this person bringing you closer to Christ? Or are they making you go straight further from Christ? Does this person cultivate the fruits of the Spirit? Do they serve? Are they a person who is worthy to lead you? If you're a man and you're speaking to a woman, is this a woman who's willing to submit? Does this person...

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

That's number one. Is this person bringing you closer to Christ? Or are they making you go straight further from Christ? Does this person cultivate the fruits of the Spirit? Do they serve? Are they a person who is worthy to lead you? If you're a man and you're speaking to a woman, is this a woman who's willing to submit? Does this person...

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

are they able to bounce back from really hard situations what is the most traumatic thing that has happened to them and how do they combat it like these are all things that you need to know as someone you're pursuing if you're looking for eternity with someone amen and so i empathize with those who have been abandoned and neglected especially like giving your all in relationships because i have been there that used to be my testimony for a long time

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

are they able to bounce back from really hard situations what is the most traumatic thing that has happened to them and how do they combat it like these are all things that you need to know as someone you're pursuing if you're looking for eternity with someone amen and so i empathize with those who have been abandoned and neglected especially like giving your all in relationships because i have been there that used to be my testimony for a long time

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And by the grace of God, because I embraced my singleness season, God brought me up and out of these atrocious abandoning cycles and brought me in to a relationship that is so satisfying. Y'all, when I tell you my relationship with Malik is so satisfying, it's satisfying because it's by God. It's ordained by God. And it's satisfying because we're both obedient to the things of God.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And by the grace of God, because I embraced my singleness season, God brought me up and out of these atrocious abandoning cycles and brought me in to a relationship that is so satisfying. Y'all, when I tell you my relationship with Malik is so satisfying, it's satisfying because it's by God. It's ordained by God. And it's satisfying because we're both obedient to the things of God.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And when I was pursuing all these men, it was a one-sided street to where I was just the one pursuing the things of God. The other person wasn't pursuing the things of God. It was just me. And I was trying to carry the torch. I was trying to lead them. And I had to die to that expectation of I'm not the leader, right?

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And when I was pursuing all these men, it was a one-sided street to where I was just the one pursuing the things of God. The other person wasn't pursuing the things of God. It was just me. And I was trying to carry the torch. I was trying to lead them. And I had to die to that expectation of I'm not the leader, right?

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

As someone who used to be a hyper-masculine woman, or as someone who used to be a hyper-individual type of woman, I will be the first to tell you that you trying to play the leadership role and you trying to lead a man who was called to lead you will never work out relationally. You cannot lead a man in a relationship, okay? This is where becoming equally yoked becomes so important.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

As someone who used to be a hyper-masculine woman, or as someone who used to be a hyper-individual type of woman, I will be the first to tell you that you trying to play the leadership role and you trying to lead a man who was called to lead you will never work out relationally. You cannot lead a man in a relationship, okay? This is where becoming equally yoked becomes so important.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And I believe our culture kind of like emphasizes this like hyper feminism of like, oh, I need to lead and I need to be a girl boss. And I got to do all these things in order to be important to where it's like you're robbing the role of the man. Like I've never been able to be feminine in my entire life until I met Malik because I met someone who was stronger than me.

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Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And I believe our culture kind of like emphasizes this like hyper feminism of like, oh, I need to lead and I need to be a girl boss. And I got to do all these things in order to be important to where it's like you're robbing the role of the man. Like I've never been able to be feminine in my entire life until I met Malik because I met someone who was stronger than me.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And what I didn't realize is that whenever I was dating all these past people, they were actually men that were emotionally and mentally a lot weaker than me. And so whenever I met Malik, man, Malik has an emotional and mental intelligence that is so admirable.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And what I didn't realize is that whenever I was dating all these past people, they were actually men that were emotionally and mentally a lot weaker than me. And so whenever I met Malik, man, Malik has an emotional and mental intelligence that is so admirable.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And that was the first that is and will be the only person and only man in my entire life that doesn't allow me to override or conquer what he has to say. Like Malik has never stooped down for a moment for me to override and try to take his role. When I tell you like Malik has always stayed in a position to be the leader and to be the head. It's because I met somebody who was stronger than me.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And that was the first that is and will be the only person and only man in my entire life that doesn't allow me to override or conquer what he has to say. Like Malik has never stooped down for a moment for me to override and try to take his role. When I tell you like Malik has always stayed in a position to be the leader and to be the head. It's because I met somebody who was stronger than me.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And I think. Oh, man. This is good. God just told me something. I have to say it. Okay. I think, man, God, hold on. God, give me grace and allow me, Father, Holy Spirit, I just ask that you help me to say this clearly because it needs to be said, Father. But let me say it with grace in Jesus' mighty name.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And I think. Oh, man. This is good. God just told me something. I have to say it. Okay. I think, man, God, hold on. God, give me grace and allow me, Father, Holy Spirit, I just ask that you help me to say this clearly because it needs to be said, Father. But let me say it with grace in Jesus' mighty name.

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

If we're being very honest, I believe that a lot of women who pursue these men actually intentionally pursue weaker men because there's a part of them that actually likes the power of being in charge. And I think that's...

Saved Not Soft
Getting Ghosted (Abandonment/ Betrayal) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

If we're being very honest, I believe that a lot of women who pursue these men actually intentionally pursue weaker men because there's a part of them that actually likes the power of being in charge. And I think that's...