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Eric Zimmer

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2117 total appearances

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The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You know, a lot of people I know tend to be like, well, if I do it perfect, I'll keep doing it.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

But if I don't do it perfect, I'm done.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And so I'm kind of curious how you think about that in your own life.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You've got a line that I really liked that I highlighted, which you said, as simple as they seem, automatic rules for common situations get results.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And I think that word right there, the common situation is the thing, right?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Like we can make rules that

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

that apply the vast majority of the time to situations that we encounter again and again and again.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

When we're in uncommon situations is when we need to have the cognitive flexibility to really say, all right, what's the right response?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

What do I do here, you know?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Yep.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Well, it is true though, like being a recovering alcoholic and addict, I often say there's a beautiful clarity to zero.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You know, like I'm not having to debate, is it okay?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

What's a special occasion?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

What's not a special occasion?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Like for me, it's really simple.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Now, most of life, it's hard to get to be that crystal clear, simple, but the more often the principle holds, again, the vast majority of the time,

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Yeah, that's a great way to think about it and say it because I don't really set exactly how much I'm going to work out each week.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

But I have been pretty consistent for about a decade now where I am close to every day.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And so I don't have to sweat it if I miss a day or two because it's an inbuilt pattern.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Yeah.