Erika

I don't know. I feel like I'd be like, that's kind of hot.

I don't know. I feel like I'd be like, that's kind of hot.

Yeah, it's also so bold to do that so early on in a new relationship.

Yeah, it's also so bold to do that so early on in a new relationship.

To be able to go to great lengths to communicate to the ex like that. I feel like I also remember you saying that they communicate semi-frequently. Yeah, she said that. So maybe that's a part of it.

To be able to go to great lengths to communicate to the ex like that. I feel like I also remember you saying that they communicate semi-frequently. Yeah, she said that. So maybe that's a part of it.

Completely.

Completely.

Right, because it just disrupts the core principle of a relationship, that you guys are a unit, that you're a team, and that you're communicating about everything that's basically happening in your lives. So to cross the boundary on something so delicate as an ex behind your partner's back, you're right, it's a major red flag.

Right, because it just disrupts the core principle of a relationship, that you guys are a unit, that you're a team, and that you're communicating about everything that's basically happening in your lives. So to cross the boundary on something so delicate as an ex behind your partner's back, you're right, it's a major red flag.

Yeah, yeah. I like the audiobook versions.

Yeah, yeah. I like the audiobook versions.

Thanks.

Thanks.

I'm listening to it right now.

I'm listening to it right now.

Kinky dollars.

Kinky dollars.

It's interesting to put it like that, too, because then it's like, I even challenge the new girlfriend in that if this book was taken down, I don't know if her problems would be solved. Like, she still read this experience. It's still there. She's uncomfortable with what she read, and she's letting it out and executing it in a way of like, finish it, nobody else needs to read this.

It's interesting to put it like that, too, because then it's like, I even challenge the new girlfriend in that if this book was taken down, I don't know if her problems would be solved. Like, she still read this experience. It's still there. She's uncomfortable with what she read, and she's letting it out and executing it in a way of like, finish it, nobody else needs to read this.