Erika

Well, does that feel like something you would have to tell your partner? Like, I don't know if I, like, that feels like information you should share.

Well, does that feel like something you would have to tell your partner? Like, I don't know if I, like, that feels like information you should share.

I think so too. And I think you're right. I think some people are going to be split on this and they're going to be like... privacy first and you don't have to share things. Maybe there's some sort of middle ground of once you've been with somebody for a certain amount of time, then you can trust them with this information and open up about it.

I think so too. And I think you're right. I think some people are going to be split on this and they're going to be like... privacy first and you don't have to share things. Maybe there's some sort of middle ground of once you've been with somebody for a certain amount of time, then you can trust them with this information and open up about it.

I just feel like I'm going off of the notion that I feel like I over-communicate in a relationship and I'm just like, hey, my ex texted today and I just wanted to put that out there. Just so that nothing is questioned at all.

I just feel like I'm going off of the notion that I feel like I over-communicate in a relationship and I'm just like, hey, my ex texted today and I just wanted to put that out there. Just so that nothing is questioned at all.

It's a complicated dilemma. I also just want to acknowledge I don't think that the author was wrong in writing that either. No. I think that's totally fair to share your experiences, especially if it is in a way that keeps it vague and doesn't reveal the identity. It just now has created this complication in the future where we haven't even discussed her future partners.

It's a complicated dilemma. I also just want to acknowledge I don't think that the author was wrong in writing that either. No. I think that's totally fair to share your experiences, especially if it is in a way that keeps it vague and doesn't reveal the identity. It just now has created this complication in the future where we haven't even discussed her future partners.

when she eventually brings somebody in the picture and is like, I wrote this book about my ex.

when she eventually brings somebody in the picture and is like, I wrote this book about my ex.

Totally.

Totally.

Yeah.

Yeah.

It must have been really frickin' kinky.

It must have been really frickin' kinky.

Oh.

Oh.

The imagination's gone wild.

The imagination's gone wild.