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The disconnect I feel like I really see here is with the practicality of their financial situation now getting in the way of them kind of understanding each other because what he's asking her to do, let go of this job that she loves and she really wants, but he's like, hey, we can't. financially this is what I need from you. And she's almost like reluctant to do so.
The disconnect I feel like I really see here is with the practicality of their financial situation now getting in the way of them kind of understanding each other because what he's asking her to do, let go of this job that she loves and she really wants, but he's like, hey, we can't. financially this is what I need from you. And she's almost like reluctant to do so.
She's really wanting to keep this job. So I'm sure she feels misunderstood by her husband. And he is like, it's not about that. We just literally need money and that's all that I can think about. So it seems like almost like just two different brains that are clashing together.
She's really wanting to keep this job. So I'm sure she feels misunderstood by her husband. And he is like, it's not about that. We just literally need money and that's all that I can think about. So it seems like almost like just two different brains that are clashing together.
And that's where that resentment comes from because now it's manifesting in them being like, you don't understand the financial situation and you don't understand how much I love my job. We're not on the same page anymore.
And that's where that resentment comes from because now it's manifesting in them being like, you don't understand the financial situation and you don't understand how much I love my job. We're not on the same page anymore.
Right, she should write an erotica novel to make some extra money every month.
Right, she should write an erotica novel to make some extra money every month.
I mean, and let's point that out too, right? The underlying misogyny in all of this of him being able to get an extra 35K a year and her being told to her face that she's not valuable.
I mean, and let's point that out too, right? The underlying misogyny in all of this of him being able to get an extra 35K a year and her being told to her face that she's not valuable.
Totally.
Totally.
Yeah, yeah. And, again, like, I think the real challenging part of this, I think a lot of people are going to also have this insight of, like, you don't really know a money situation until you're in it. You know? When you're struggling with money and when you are, like, financially just, like...
Yeah, yeah. And, again, like, I think the real challenging part of this, I think a lot of people are going to also have this insight of, like, you don't really know a money situation until you're in it. You know? When you're struggling with money and when you are, like, financially just, like...
Not successful and and not feeling good like I I do also see that from a lot of people being like it doesn't matter like and it is gonna help and and and whatever we can do and if they did have kids which it's a blessing that they don't like that just adds to the stress of like that is the number one priority so I do also see that side of
Not successful and and not feeling good like I I do also see that from a lot of people being like it doesn't matter like and it is gonna help and and and whatever we can do and if they did have kids which it's a blessing that they don't like that just adds to the stress of like that is the number one priority so I do also see that side of
of it just being like nothing else matters if we literally cannot put food on our plate, have a roof above our heads and stuff like that. It's just the fact that they aren't able to communicate about it and let each other in on that perspective. They're instead just holding on to those observations on their own and then letting it build up and it's causing this fight between the two of them.
of it just being like nothing else matters if we literally cannot put food on our plate, have a roof above our heads and stuff like that. It's just the fact that they aren't able to communicate about it and let each other in on that perspective. They're instead just holding on to those observations on their own and then letting it build up and it's causing this fight between the two of them.
She gets deed.
She gets deed.