Evan

Mari is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Evan.

So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.

But before we do that, Mari, tell us about your date with Evan.

How long has it been since you talked to him?

It's been four days.

Our date was really amazing.

Four days and you're saying you're getting ghosted already?

Yeah, are you sure?

I feel like if you don't follow up the day after a date, they're never going to text you.

Oh.

I mean, usually a good date, you do get the follow up, but.

Yeah.

But I will say, like, what if he's just busy or like things just got a little crazy?

don't know i think four days is a little bit too long to leave someone hanging i i did follow up with him after so to not get a response okay yeah all right so tell us about the date it was amazing like honestly too good to be true for a first date maybe we went to this cozy little candlelit restaurant it was

so cute one of those cozy booths where you there's no way to not touch so our knees are touching we're drinking wine we're sharing apps oh i think we both i know it felt so romantic it's calm which i think is odd for a first date you don't always feel so steady you feel nervous but there was just

this like calmness about the whole night no like worry about eye contact and we just felt so connected it felt safe honestly and yeah we're sharing food and I think we both kind of acknowledge that this could be something um

We kissed at the end of the night and it was just sweet.

It wasn't rushed or forced.

No awkward, like, will they, won't they?

It just, it all sounds so great.