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Fearne Cotton

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Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

Even if I'm doing this podcast, we're in a boxed-off room on our own.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

We don't know what the reaction is.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

You hope that people are going to receive whatever you're saying or writing and it's going to impact them positively, but you don't entirely know.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

So I think those little...

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

you know, one-on-one interactions of people stopping you in the street or even DMing you.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

But I think when it is in person, you're like, oh my God, this is actually, people are reading this book or your books and it's doing something positive.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

And then, you know, various bowls of rice and coloured water.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

How embarrassing, but brilliant, because we need more positive content out there.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

We just do.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

We need stuff that is going to be truly helpful.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

And your videos have helped me so much over the years, as have your books.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

But it's a funny thing when your work starts to blow up like that.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

And I remember, I mean, I can't think how long ago this was, but that first TED talk that BrenΓ© Brown put out,

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

about shame.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

And then she put out a subsequent one, not that long after, talking about the reaction to the blow up of the first video and saying that she actually felt shame and kind of had to readdress the whole thing because it was so huge.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

And when you've got numbers like you have watching your videos, reading your books,

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

There is sort of a level of, I guess, responsibility, but also just, I don't know, maybe overwhelm.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

It's a lot.

Happy Place
"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

It's a lot of people.

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"Why does criticism hurt so much?" Dr Julie on triggers and behaviour patterns

Have you experienced that?