Francesca Amber

But then when you're like attracted to someone and then you start... And then I start thinking in my head, like, oh, maybe this is something I want.

And then actually when I look at it, I'm like, if you had a blindfold on, this man is like everything you don't like in a person.

And I think that sometimes...

and this is biological, sex can make you blind to what is actually good for you.

And how many times have we, like if I actually wrote down on paper, like this man is very noncommittal.

He's got a community dick.

He's got many, many children.

His values aren't the same as mine.

He's financially not my type.

I love saying that.

Sorry, financially, you're not my type.

There's so many things.

But when you start having sex with them because of stupid biology and your body thinks you're going to get pregnant, they're like right attached to this person because you need them.

And we do that as women.

They do.

That is a biological thing that you can't override.

And so for me now, I've had to sacrifice.

that local dick appointment because it's just not good for me mentally.

You still do that when you're... You're probably still doing it when you're 70.

I don't trust myself.