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We just never spoke again after having a certain phone call. And it's just not in my character to be a ghoster or to end things on a bad note. Like I have pretty high emotional intelligence, I would say.
So on the day after Valentine's Day, I felt like he was being a little short with me, which has been an ongoing issue in the relationship when he's frustrated by something or doesn't like something. He doesn't just come to me and bring it up in a healthy way and we talk it out and then it's all good.
So on the day after Valentine's Day, I felt like he was being a little short with me, which has been an ongoing issue in the relationship when he's frustrated by something or doesn't like something. He doesn't just come to me and bring it up in a healthy way and we talk it out and then it's all good.
So on the day after Valentine's Day, I felt like he was being a little short with me, which has been an ongoing issue in the relationship when he's frustrated by something or doesn't like something. He doesn't just come to me and bring it up in a healthy way and we talk it out and then it's all good.
He kind of punishes me for it and I have to realize that I'm being kind of ignored or he's being shorter with me, less affectionate. I have to ask and then it comes up. So that's always been a frustration.
He kind of punishes me for it and I have to realize that I'm being kind of ignored or he's being shorter with me, less affectionate. I have to ask and then it comes up. So that's always been a frustration.
He kind of punishes me for it and I have to realize that I'm being kind of ignored or he's being shorter with me, less affectionate. I have to ask and then it comes up. So that's always been a frustration.
So let's, here's an example. I didn't get a plus one for a wedding last summer. We're in our twenties. When you're not that close with the couple getting married, you don't want to ask them to add a plus one for some new guy you're dating. So anyway, not a problem to me. When I was at the wedding, he wouldn't speak to me. He wouldn't answer my texts.
So let's, here's an example. I didn't get a plus one for a wedding last summer. We're in our twenties. When you're not that close with the couple getting married, you don't want to ask them to add a plus one for some new guy you're dating. So anyway, not a problem to me. When I was at the wedding, he wouldn't speak to me. He wouldn't answer my texts.
So let's, here's an example. I didn't get a plus one for a wedding last summer. We're in our twenties. When you're not that close with the couple getting married, you don't want to ask them to add a plus one for some new guy you're dating. So anyway, not a problem to me. When I was at the wedding, he wouldn't speak to me. He wouldn't answer my texts.
When I called him, he was like, he decided to be angry about it while I was at the wedding. Like why not before the wedding or at a time where we could talk about it?
When I called him, he was like, he decided to be angry about it while I was at the wedding. Like why not before the wedding or at a time where we could talk about it?
When I called him, he was like, he decided to be angry about it while I was at the wedding. Like why not before the wedding or at a time where we could talk about it?
You're welcome. So Valentine's day after Valentine's day, he's being short doing the punishment thing. So I called him to say like, what's wrong? Like what, what are you upset about? And.
You're welcome. So Valentine's day after Valentine's day, he's being short doing the punishment thing. So I called him to say like, what's wrong? Like what, what are you upset about? And.
You're welcome. So Valentine's day after Valentine's day, he's being short doing the punishment thing. So I called him to say like, what's wrong? Like what, what are you upset about? And.
Both. Sometimes I have a clue, but it usually surprises me so much what he actually is upset about that I don't even know.
Both. Sometimes I have a clue, but it usually surprises me so much what he actually is upset about that I don't even know.
Both. Sometimes I have a clue, but it usually surprises me so much what he actually is upset about that I don't even know.
I think what bothers me, his emotions aren't that elevated. He gets actually more reserved and cold. So it's not a heightened emotion. It's more, why is he mad about something like that?