Freya India

But I actually changed my mind on that and I actually think therapy culture is worse for women because women ruminate more. They co-ruminate more.

But I actually changed my mind on that and I actually think therapy culture is worse for women because women ruminate more. They co-ruminate more.

Yeah, if you think of an anxious young 14-year-old girl, the worst thing you can tell her is to go further into her own head to get relief and to think more about her problems and to kind of search her life for symptoms. If you told me that at 14, it's the worst thing I could have heard.

Yeah, if you think of an anxious young 14-year-old girl, the worst thing you can tell her is to go further into her own head to get relief and to think more about her problems and to kind of search her life for symptoms. If you told me that at 14, it's the worst thing I could have heard.

Yeah, if you think of an anxious young 14-year-old girl, the worst thing you can tell her is to go further into her own head to get relief and to think more about her problems and to kind of search her life for symptoms. If you told me that at 14, it's the worst thing I could have heard.

So I actually think maybe some men do need to do that a little bit more, but the average young girl needs to kind of cut out.

So I actually think maybe some men do need to do that a little bit more, but the average young girl needs to kind of cut out.

So I actually think maybe some men do need to do that a little bit more, but the average young girl needs to kind of cut out.

Yeah, I think it's a form of control. So it's like, it's our version of control. You know, if we feel uncomfortable or feel an uneasy emotion, we're just like, I'm going to categorize that and diagnose it. You know, that's my attachment disorder or that's my depression disorder.

Yeah, I think it's a form of control. So it's like, it's our version of control. You know, if we feel uncomfortable or feel an uneasy emotion, we're just like, I'm going to categorize that and diagnose it. You know, that's my attachment disorder or that's my depression disorder.

Yeah, I think it's a form of control. So it's like, it's our version of control. You know, if we feel uncomfortable or feel an uneasy emotion, we're just like, I'm going to categorize that and diagnose it. You know, that's my attachment disorder or that's my depression disorder.

um and i think men do that kind they have their own kind of self-optimization trends and the gym stuff where that can become like a form of control um to deal with kind of uneasy emotions and i think yeah this is the woman's version of that it's like we can't sit with it or just accept like a painful situation so i often think about

um and i think men do that kind they have their own kind of self-optimization trends and the gym stuff where that can become like a form of control um to deal with kind of uneasy emotions and i think yeah this is the woman's version of that it's like we can't sit with it or just accept like a painful situation so i often think about

um and i think men do that kind they have their own kind of self-optimization trends and the gym stuff where that can become like a form of control um to deal with kind of uneasy emotions and i think yeah this is the woman's version of that it's like we can't sit with it or just accept like a painful situation so i often think about

So if you look at these kind of attachment style forums or girls talking about their attachment styles, very often they'll describe just a bad relationship and then they'll say, oh, it's my attachment disorder. So they'll be like, he cheated on me and I can't get over it because of my anxious attachment. And it's like...

So if you look at these kind of attachment style forums or girls talking about their attachment styles, very often they'll describe just a bad relationship and then they'll say, oh, it's my attachment disorder. So they'll be like, he cheated on me and I can't get over it because of my anxious attachment. And it's like...

So if you look at these kind of attachment style forums or girls talking about their attachment styles, very often they'll describe just a bad relationship and then they'll say, oh, it's my attachment disorder. So they'll be like, he cheated on me and I can't get over it because of my anxious attachment. And it's like...

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.