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Um, and I think there's a lot of girls now punishing themselves for being emotional and sensitive and wanting a partner and wanting to depend on someone. Because now the image of a strong independent woman is someone who doesn't depend on anyone and who doesn't get emotional, doesn't get jealous, doesn't care.

Um, and I think there's a lot of girls now punishing themselves for being emotional and sensitive and wanting a partner and wanting to depend on someone. Because now the image of a strong independent woman is someone who doesn't depend on anyone and who doesn't get emotional, doesn't get jealous, doesn't care.

And so you also have two contradictory messages because you have therapy culture saying to girls, open up more and more about your problems, you know, be more emotional, tell everyone how you feel. But then you also have strong independent women don't care.

And so you also have two contradictory messages because you have therapy culture saying to girls, open up more and more about your problems, you know, be more emotional, tell everyone how you feel. But then you also have strong independent women don't care.

And so you also have two contradictory messages because you have therapy culture saying to girls, open up more and more about your problems, you know, be more emotional, tell everyone how you feel. But then you also have strong independent women don't care.

you know they never get emotional and if they do get an emotional it's trauma or an attachment issue and it's like that's a really cruel thing to teach emotional young girls and confusing because it's like of course they feel that way because they're human but now they're being told that that's yeah a medical issue or something that they should heal

you know they never get emotional and if they do get an emotional it's trauma or an attachment issue and it's like that's a really cruel thing to teach emotional young girls and confusing because it's like of course they feel that way because they're human but now they're being told that that's yeah a medical issue or something that they should heal

you know they never get emotional and if they do get an emotional it's trauma or an attachment issue and it's like that's a really cruel thing to teach emotional young girls and confusing because it's like of course they feel that way because they're human but now they're being told that that's yeah a medical issue or something that they should heal

Well, I think that's, again, a lack of adults stepping in. I have this theory I've been thinking about of, like, everyone just accepts now that parents are overprotective. So there's, like, the helicopter parenting and the coddling of Gen Z. Yeah. But I think like parents are weirdly, they're not protective enough, but they're also coddling.

Well, I think that's, again, a lack of adults stepping in. I have this theory I've been thinking about of, like, everyone just accepts now that parents are overprotective. So there's, like, the helicopter parenting and the coddling of Gen Z. Yeah. But I think like parents are weirdly, they're not protective enough, but they're also coddling.

Well, I think that's, again, a lack of adults stepping in. I have this theory I've been thinking about of, like, everyone just accepts now that parents are overprotective. So there's, like, the helicopter parenting and the coddling of Gen Z. Yeah. But I think like parents are weirdly, they're not protective enough, but they're also coddling.

So they're like coddle their children, but not put up proper boundaries or guardrails. There's like no rules, but they're over-involved.

So they're like coddle their children, but not put up proper boundaries or guardrails. There's like no rules, but they're over-involved.

So they're like coddle their children, but not put up proper boundaries or guardrails. There's like no rules, but they're over-involved.

So now it's like the only danger is like physical danger. It's injury. So parents protect from injury, but they don't protect from something like... their daughters being online and posting, trying to get on OnlyFans. I mean, Jonathan Haidt talks about it when he says kids are overprotective in the real world and underprotected online.

So now it's like the only danger is like physical danger. It's injury. So parents protect from injury, but they don't protect from something like... their daughters being online and posting, trying to get on OnlyFans. I mean, Jonathan Haidt talks about it when he says kids are overprotective in the real world and underprotected online.

So now it's like the only danger is like physical danger. It's injury. So parents protect from injury, but they don't protect from something like... their daughters being online and posting, trying to get on OnlyFans. I mean, Jonathan Haidt talks about it when he says kids are overprotective in the real world and underprotected online.

But I think it's slightly more than that because I don't think parents are totally protective in the real world because they, again, they've also, I think, kind of internalized this messaging of I shouldn't get involved. You know, it's not my place.

But I think it's slightly more than that because I don't think parents are totally protective in the real world because they, again, they've also, I think, kind of internalized this messaging of I shouldn't get involved. You know, it's not my place.

But I think it's slightly more than that because I don't think parents are totally protective in the real world because they, again, they've also, I think, kind of internalized this messaging of I shouldn't get involved. You know, it's not my place.