Gabriel Mizrahi

I'm worried about you. I was left with some tough feelings. I couldn't help but notice that whatever the food took over the whole trip, the snacks were a big deal. We didn't speak for 45 minutes at the restaurant when that was quality time that we were supposed to have. That's different from you have a problem. You need to lose weight. You're rude. You're inconsiderate.

I'm worried about you. I was left with some tough feelings. I couldn't help but notice that whatever the food took over the whole trip, the snacks were a big deal. We didn't speak for 45 minutes at the restaurant when that was quality time that we were supposed to have. That's different from you have a problem. You need to lose weight. You're rude. You're inconsiderate.

I'm worried about you. I was left with some tough feelings. I couldn't help but notice that whatever the food took over the whole trip, the snacks were a big deal. We didn't speak for 45 minutes at the restaurant when that was quality time that we were supposed to have. That's different from you have a problem. You need to lose weight. You're rude. You're inconsiderate.

This is why your husband is pulling away, whatever it is. That approach might put our friend here on more solid ground too, because she and her colleague might disagree about whether this is a problem or whether it's something she needs to tackle. But this woman cannot argue with our friend here's feelings with her experience.

This is why your husband is pulling away, whatever it is. That approach might put our friend here on more solid ground too, because she and her colleague might disagree about whether this is a problem or whether it's something she needs to tackle. But this woman cannot argue with our friend here's feelings with her experience.

This is why your husband is pulling away, whatever it is. That approach might put our friend here on more solid ground too, because she and her colleague might disagree about whether this is a problem or whether it's something she needs to tackle. But this woman cannot argue with our friend here's feelings with her experience.

Yeah. Okay. I think that's the right approach. So it's the approach that I would probably take if I could work up the courage to have this conversation. I'm not saying it's going to be easy, but I also think you should probably keep your expectations low.

Yeah. Okay. I think that's the right approach. So it's the approach that I would probably take if I could work up the courage to have this conversation. I'm not saying it's going to be easy, but I also think you should probably keep your expectations low.

Yeah. Okay. I think that's the right approach. So it's the approach that I would probably take if I could work up the courage to have this conversation. I'm not saying it's going to be easy, but I also think you should probably keep your expectations low.

And I'm saying this in part because you said something in the very beginning of your letter that I'm just realizing was very interesting, which is She and her husband started therapy and then they stopped because she said, what did she say? The therapist was woo woo. But then they never looked for another therapist.

And I'm saying this in part because you said something in the very beginning of your letter that I'm just realizing was very interesting, which is She and her husband started therapy and then they stopped because she said, what did she say? The therapist was woo woo. But then they never looked for another therapist.

And I'm saying this in part because you said something in the very beginning of your letter that I'm just realizing was very interesting, which is She and her husband started therapy and then they stopped because she said, what did she say? The therapist was woo woo. But then they never looked for another therapist.

So maybe this therapist was bullshit and they were like, this is not the person for us. But the fact that they haven't found a new one and they are having marital problems and there's a lot for both of them to talk about here kind of makes me wonder why.

So maybe this therapist was bullshit and they were like, this is not the person for us. But the fact that they haven't found a new one and they are having marital problems and there's a lot for both of them to talk about here kind of makes me wonder why.

So maybe this therapist was bullshit and they were like, this is not the person for us. But the fact that they haven't found a new one and they are having marital problems and there's a lot for both of them to talk about here kind of makes me wonder why.

If this friend might not really want to get into this stuff, not sticking with therapy might be one way to sidestep some important and difficult work on her part. Definitely. So if that's any indication of how willing she is to talk about this stuff, just keep that in mind and just know that you might not get the result you want, but that doesn't mean it's not worth trying.

If this friend might not really want to get into this stuff, not sticking with therapy might be one way to sidestep some important and difficult work on her part. Definitely. So if that's any indication of how willing she is to talk about this stuff, just keep that in mind and just know that you might not get the result you want, but that doesn't mean it's not worth trying.

If this friend might not really want to get into this stuff, not sticking with therapy might be one way to sidestep some important and difficult work on her part. Definitely. So if that's any indication of how willing she is to talk about this stuff, just keep that in mind and just know that you might not get the result you want, but that doesn't mean it's not worth trying.

Okay, next up. Hi, Jordan and Gabe. I've been doing Brazilian jiu-jitsu and Muay Thai since 2018 under the same coach. Last year, I got a new job that requires over 50% out-of-state travel, which made training consistently unrealistic. I told the coaches I was happy to keep paying my $139 monthly dues, even when traveling, to help them pay the bills and eventually upgrade to a larger facility.

Okay, next up. Hi, Jordan and Gabe. I've been doing Brazilian jiu-jitsu and Muay Thai since 2018 under the same coach. Last year, I got a new job that requires over 50% out-of-state travel, which made training consistently unrealistic. I told the coaches I was happy to keep paying my $139 monthly dues, even when traveling, to help them pay the bills and eventually upgrade to a larger facility.